Breakup after 9 years.

First of all, I just want to say that I really feel for you. It sounds like you’re facing a deeply difficult decision, and it’s completely understandable to feel torn. Balancing what’s best for you, your partner, and your kids is incredibly challenging.🙌

Here’s the thing: It’s okay to be uncertain. Life doesn’t always give us clear answers, but it’s important to listen to your gut and your heart during moments like this. When we’re caught in that fog, taking small steps to get clarity can help.

Ask yourself:

• What would give me the most peace in the long run? Is it being closer to family for support, or staying where you are for the sake of your current relationship?

• What’s the situation at home like right now? Are you getting the support you need emotionally, mentally, and physically?

• What’s the best for your kids? Sometimes, even though change can be hard, a positive shift might open up new opportunities for their growth, too.

Your well-being matters, and you don’t have to carry this burden alone. Sometimes leaning on your family, whether near or far, can help clear some of that fog, even if it’s just by talking things through.:)

Most importantly, you’re doing your best, and that’s all anyone, including you, can ask of yourself. You’ve got the strength to figure this out. Take a deep breath, trust that you’ll find your path, and take it one day at a time. 💖