@wzahnd1977 Hi Wendy. I see you're new to 7cups and I just wanted to give you a warm welcome! So welcome! :) I am sorry you have had to deal with such an abusive relationship for so long. 28 years is a long time and it is understandable that you wish to find someone to talk to. 7cups is a mental health platform and I am really glad you are here. If you ever need someone to talk to, there are listeners available that are ready and willing to offer you some emotional support. You can browse for an available listener here or you can put a request in the queue and a listener will accept your request when he or she is free. I really hope you give it a try as it seems it could be something you benefit from. Though listeners are not able to give advice about your situation, they are someone to offer an ear for you during the time you need. I really hope you enjoy the platform and get out of it what you need. <3 Sending you healing vibes, Wendy.