Sometimes, I get anxious before sending a message to a girl. How could i get over this?
persistentWalker5484
January 18th, 2019
Ok, so one problem i have is actually sending the message and starting to converse.
I don't know why i do, i just can't work up the nerve to do it.
Take Christmas. There is this girl i've never made the effort to talk to, but have always wanted to. I figured i had an excuse, so i just sent "Merry Christmas", she said it back, i sent her a "How are you", she replied and i was too anxious to read it and it's been since Christmas.
It's probably too late.
DavidEss
January 22nd, 2019
@persistentWalker5484
The best way is to be completely honest up front. Say something like "sorry it's taken me so long to reply but I get really anxious chatting to you."
Once it's out in the open, for some strange reason it's often easier to do.