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Sometimes, I get anxious before sending a message to a girl. How could i get over this?

User Profile: persistentWalker5484
persistentWalker5484 January 18th, 2019

Ok, so one problem i have is actually sending the message and starting to converse.

I don't know why i do, i just can't work up the nerve to do it.

Take Christmas. There is this girl i've never made the effort to talk to, but have always wanted to. I figured i had an excuse, so i just sent "Merry Christmas", she said it back, i sent her a "How are you", she replied and i was too anxious to read it and it's been since Christmas.

It's probably too late.

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User Profile: DavidEss
DavidEss January 22nd, 2019

@persistentWalker5484

The best way is to be completely honest up front. Say something like "sorry it's taken me so long to reply but I get really anxious chatting to you."

Once it's out in the open, for some strange reason it's often easier to do.