I need a person
I need someone who I can vent to about my issues whether it is irrational or normal. I need that same person to be able to joke with me and have a good time. I need someone who can tolerate my sailors mouth and awkward sense of humor. I just need someone I can be myself around even when I don't want to be around myself. Preferably someone around my age (21) but at this point I don't care. Anyone wanna be my person?
@Aracelia
Hi.
I would love to be 'your person'
Feel free to pm me :)
@Aracelia Hey, I'm also hear if you need someone to vent to. :)
@Aracelia Hey. I'm reading a lot of frustration in your post and I totally understand why you're frustrated. It's hard asking for things and getting something entirely different. Especially on a site that values itself on being able to listen to what it is you're asking for. I'm afraid I have no magic answers for you but I wanted to send my encouragement to keep trying, regardless.
Self improvement is a difficult journey and you're asking all the right questions. It's only a matter of time until you find your answers. Don't give up!
@Yougotthisdontfret I've been at this for 11 years I don't plan to give up anytime soon. The frustration is not because I can't find someone to vent to. Rather the people I have talked to (although few at the moment) will let me vent but they treat me as if I am broken which I suppose is true but treating us as such does not help. All I ask for is a friend that won't treat me as broken. Someone that can listen when I NEED to vent but respect my wishes to run away from my issues and joke when I need to feel normal. I need a good friend who can accept me for my flaws as well as my good traits.
@Aracelia Your desires are not unreasonable and you articulate them well. I am sorry that you feel as if people treat you like you're broken. That's a crappy way to feel. Only you can decide if there are parts of you you want to change but even then, you're not broken and you never deserve to be treated as such.
I'm impressed with your tenacity. Keep it up.
@Aracelia Beautiful soul! You ain't alone. I am always here for you. I am 21 as well. And I wish you good luck ahead. God bless you! *HUGS*
@Aracelia I see you've got responses, but feel free to also hit me up anytime you want! I get the awkward sense of humor and sailor's mouth, though I normally clean it up on here.
you sound like me llol xx @Aracelia
