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sunalchemy January 6th, 2017

Well just talking about life you know ! Sometimes i got issues but most of the time it's nothing major.

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January 6th, 2017

@sunalchemy

Many, I'm sure, are secluded for one reason or another. As much as the 'live chat' is enticing, I definitely couldn't keep up; I have a broken wrist. <meh> It could have been my neck, so I'm fortunate. I'm an avid reader & a writer. Music is another passion-- anything from Laurie Anderson to Tom Waits, Counting Crows, REM, and Paul Simon. In real life, I'm quite boring! ;) I don't drink, smoke, or fool around! I speak a couple of languages and have studied Ancient Tamil &Sanskrit to assist in the preservation of groups of prayers that would make up spiritual 'event' (for lack of a better term).

I don't have (m)any friends really. My job (for money) pretty much isolates me from adults. My hobbies are quite solitary. I'm not particularly uncomfortable with crowds, I just appear like I'm someone I'm not. I have two children, a 10-year old son, and a 14-year old daughter.

I hope you find someone that is honest who can bring out the best in you and the other way around.

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sunalchemy OP January 7th, 2017

@JeffWM Thank you for your message and i don't think you are boring. I don't drink and smoke either. I'm stuck between loans, college choice, and many other issues but i'm still happy. My health has begun to be a bit bad lately and all this thinking makes me anxious. I saw we had many interest in common like learning languages or music taste. I'm a person who likes to spend time alone but my favorite hobby is boardgame cause it makes laugh and connect with people which i don't usually have a facility to do.

I don't have a lot of friends neither i choose quality over quantity but i know my friends have their problems or they are too focused on new relationship or whatever. Mostly i feel overwhelmed when there is too much people cause my social skills are not at the best. My family is split around my country and i'm not close to them. I also have a wonderful boyfriend but i don't want exhaust him with my worries. I read you have kids i love them and i volonteer for the scouts they are so adorable.

If you have time to talk i would appreciate it ! You seem awesome ! have a good night :)

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January 8th, 2017

@sunalchemy

It would be my pleasure. We could talk about Mersenne primes, or Chaucer, or new music, or recipes! (Yeah. A lot of different things interest me.) I have a broken wrist, so I can't write at length for the time being. I can assure you that unless you give me specifics about where you live/wor/go to school (with actual times) I won't be stalking you. I find it's just too much effort and then there are the orders of protection and bench warrants. It's just too time consuming ;)

I'm finishing "The Goldfinch" and if you have an eReader, I've converted a bunch of Haruki Murakami's short stories. You can find them here:

https://goo.gl/stiQ3I

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marvelousSummer75 January 7th, 2017

Hi there @sunalchemy, I would be happy to chat with you :)

afzalmaverick January 9th, 2017

@sunalchemy pm me

aHappyLittlePanda January 10th, 2017

@sunalchemy Hi, I'm here if you want to talk so feel free to send me a message! :)