A person to talk to
I have people but nobody actually talk to me.Someone to just have a chat or something. Ask about things and stuff like that. I overthink Alot so maybe that could be an issue. But well everybody needs someone right?
You are always welcome to talk to me, leave me a message if you decide to and we will figure out the rest,
@Lighteningheart Hi, I'm Janet. Overthinking can be seen as a negative but I think it just shows that someone asks questions and wonders about life in layers. It's good to be curious, question the world, each other, ourselves. We're here to explore and to continually grow. So always do just that. Happy to talk about anything under the sun, or the moon, should you wish to. Take care, Jan
@CuriousBookworm5 I know and thank you Janet. I wish I am just trying to find more people like me.
@Lighteningheart Like minded people. That makes sense. I love my friends with all my heart but apart from one, we have absolutely nothing in common! In a way, it's good to have those differences because it's like having a mirror held up to you that shows you different aspects of yourself. Mostly, if I'm honest, it can feel both frustrating and isolating. You know yourself, you're clearly a strong person with ideas. There are people out there who share those ideas, question them, challenge and inspire them, as much as you can inspire somebody else. Look at your interests. People who are fascinated by a particular subject tend to have the same traits. What kind of people do you wish you could find?
@CuriousBookworm5 I have many different people in my life, But nobody who could make me believe in the real motivating lifestyle. My friends and all have their confortable life and they are well fitted in it. I guess what I am searching for is just someone who has a quest like me. I already have done many thing like being curious,sharing and inspring. Maybe I just want a person to be with me to understand more than it is. That's all I guess
@Lighteningheart A quest!?! Now there's a word that makes me smile. It conjures up a whole world of magic, adventure, of searching and challenges. This may sound fanciful, but I love the sea and part of that is because I feel understood by it, it echoes my mood, has a restlessness. Being settled and comfortable with life, feeling content, is wonderful. For me, it isn't enough. Not in a selfish way, more that I long for knowledge, questions, ideas. I write, I want to be a writer, so my head rarely stays for long in the present. It wanders all over the place and when something catches a thought, it's like fireworks going off, sparks of why and what if? I've an inexhaustible enthusiasm for questions! I don't know how we can live in this universe and not ask.
@CuriousBookworm5 I think we should talk more then :)
@Lighteningheart Happy to!! Soooooo many things to talk about, endless possibilities! Just an idea - you pick any 3 playing cards and write a different topic on the backs of them, then tell me the cards only. I can do the same, so we each pick a completely random subject? Or, is there something in particular you'd like to talk about or wonder about?
@CuriousBookworm5 your Idea is more interesting and fun. :)
@Lighteningheart Why, thanking you kindly! Ah'll jus' mosey on down to the saloon an'break up one a them there poker games, grab me some moonshine an' a fancy deck o cards, quicker than a silver bullet! SO!! 4 of hearts, ace of clubs or king of diamonds? ☺
@CuriousBookworm5 ace of diamonds
@Lighteningheart History! If you could change any historical event, what would you choose and why? How would it impact on todays world? Or would you not change an event at all? And because that sort of looks a little like a school exam! - pick any place and time, any era. Where would you go, what life would you choose there? If you dislike this sort of question or find it boring, do say. I honestly don't mind! Happy to talk about anything so any subject or ideas you have, just say. Hope you're having a happy and sunny day. Take care, Jan.
@CuriousBookworm5 uhm changing an event. That would be the bombing of pearl harbor and hiroshima. if its an era it would be victorian.
@Lighteningheart Have you interests in the second world war and the Victorian era? Same here! Part of me has always felt like I belong to another time, particularly the Victorian era
@CuriousBookworm5 I know.
@Lighteningheart Really?! Where it feels more like your heart belongs then? That time, and the Edwardian era puts an ache in my blood
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we all need someone to talk to, and we all go through these nights where we look at the hundreds of contacts we have yet not a single one we can speak to and trust to let all what's in our hearts to...
I have been done so badly and judged by every friend I have had in past ten years....I found internet support friends are the most loyal and non judgmental ones there is I am struggling down my rock my road of life and have no one to support or talk to and I'm literally driving myself crazy only over thinking and talking to myself
