Anxious, perfectionistic overachiever seeking long-term listener
I am a thirty-something in the midst of a career change. I'm currently working on a doctoral degree in a health sciences field and have lots to be stressed about. I'm anxious, perfectionistic, and overachieving. I have a long history of trauma, mental health issues, and addiction. Very high-functioning, but there's only an extent to which I can hide my internal mess from my colleagues. I do think they notice and get concerned, despite my good grades. This is a basic overview of me. I'm looking for a mature, insightful person to be a long-term listener. I'm understanding about boundaries and the fact that listeners have their own needs too. I promise to respect my listener and be candid in our discussions.
@rainboweucalyptus Being in the medical field and being a perfectionist is pretty hard because there are things you can't change or you can't do anything about - but with the right coping skills you might find a way to maintain your good marks and get your positive emotions back. You are doing something good.
I'm here (7 cups) once everyday but right now I'm not listening to many new people - being a long-term listener is probably not possible but I'd take my time and be there for you if you want.
You can read my profile for more information about myself :)
Have a good and healthy new year <3
