I need someone to tell me I’m over thinking.
I think I’m over exaggerating but I just have to talk about it. Am I over thinking this if a friend calls me her friend but not her best friend and she is my best friend?
okay let me explain: my best friend I met in college and have known her for three years. We constantly hangout and when I moved away, she visited me twice and we text everyday. She has told me that she loves and respects me and that I am one of her favorite people.
however on her ***, she refers to me as her friend. But then she refers to someone else as “one of her best friends.” I’m not sure if I’ve heard her say I’m her best friend but I’ve called her my best friend before.
am I over thinking this? I just feel like I’m always in a position where I give more love and friendship than I get in return. Like if I was to ghost her randomly, she’d get over it but if she was to ghost me, I’d be upset for a long time. I don’t know, am I over exaggerating and over thinking?
@drzombienoodles
It sounds like you're feeling a bit hurt and insecure, and that's completely understandable. It's natural to want to feel valued and appreciated in your friendships, especially with someone you consider your best friend. Have you considered asking her just for validation?