Confusion, social anxiety and myself

@SoulSun808

I totally get it, things can get messy sometimes, and it's okay not to have everything sorted out. Friendships should be positive and supportive, so if you're not feeling it, it's worth considering whether it's worth your energy. School anxiety after a vacation is pretty common. Going from relaxation mode to school mode can be a shock to the system. Try to ease back in, establish a routine, set small goals, and remember that it's okay to feel a bit overwhelmed. If this whole bundle of emotions keeps weighing you down, it might be a good idea to chat with a therapist, if that's an option. Life's a journey, and it's okay not to have a map

@patientSky175

Well, all these emotions seemed to increase over the time. There is no routine for me because I don't really know how to act in school. Eg I have friends with whom I talk about my fav books and friends which doesn't read at all. So if I have those different versions of me how will I ever figure out who I am? This fells like too much to think about and I guess it makes a big part of my anxiety.

You sound like you have a lot going on and it’s okay. Life can be a whirlwind at times and we can easily get lost in the changes.

I learned something that may help regarding your friend situation. If negative emotions come up when you think of the friend, take a good look at the friendship, if you find it to have more negatives, it may be worth letting the friendship go. Friendships differ from person to person, however the basis of a friendship is having the other’s best interest at heart, positive and support. You do not need to tell them why you’re no longer their friend if you choose to.

Jumping back into school after vacation can be difficult as you’re going from being relaxed and having no stress to having to worry about different subjects. Feeling overwhelmed and anxious is normal. Give yourself some time to adjust, it’s okay to stop and give yourself a moment to just breathe. Establishing a routine can be really helpful, along with small daily goals. The goal can be as simple as just getting through the school day.

You are not alone in this and there will be someone here to chat with you. If you feel like that is not enough, it may be a good idea to reach out to a therapist.