Growing Apart
I’ve been friends with my best friend for almost 20 years but now that were getting older I feel like we’ve completely grown apart. Sometimes I feel like she’s holding me back and weighing me down because she doesn’t want to grow as a person. Should I stay her friend or move on?
If your growing apart and she's holding you back in life, then love her from a distance. You can still be her friend but don't allow her so much of your time that it becomes overwhelming. It's ok to outgrow people
@sincerePear1220 Sometimes life has a different demands. We don't really understand at the moment but yes rewinding later, things make more sense.
Its okay, sometimes distance starts grow between us and the one's we care for. How do we deal with it? Buddha says, in every such situation follow a middle path. Not taking a extreme path is the best option. That means, not crave for the affection too much, not deliberately create too much of a distance. Rather focus on your emotions. You can only take charge of things which are under your own control.
