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Need opinions

My husband has me doing everything. I was fed up last week when he told me that I needed to order a water delivery. I said that we should take turns calling because that’s what adults do. I even wrote down the number for him. He has refused to call. He was the one who wanted bottled water delivered. I can’t taste the difference. Should I continue the stand off? Is it petty?

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Arekku97 August 25th

@quickwittedCamp7013 No, you are being completely fair. A relationship needs to be equal, as in an equal amount of work put in for it to be healthy. If someone slacks off and causes the partner to work harder, it's them being lazy/inconsiderate and bad feelings can fester within it. Just be straight up with him and talk to him. Worst thing in a relationship to do is play mind games or to have silence grow among you, and the best thing I would say is just to talk about it and be open and honest. He needs to pull his weight just like you are.