Caregiving
I hate my life! I hate caregiving. My mother is 90 years old and my husband and I are stuck taking care of her. She doesn't cooperate at all. I swear I want a better life for my husband and me. I hate my life!!! My mother has created such a God awful series in my life. My mother is a hoarder, so we can't get rid of anything in our home without her throwing a hissy fit, which creates an awful situation for us. i work full time, and when I get home, I can't relax because I have to take care of her then, try to clean but when we clean, my mother accuses us of throwing out items that she deems as valuable (which they're not). I can't sleep anymore, I can't be happy anymore. I wish God would take me to Heaven because I can't live like this anymore. Being a caretaker is beyond my capabilities.
@Patriot hey sweetie you've tried your best that's more than most people would do, so well done ❤ when it gets this bad you need to get help, have you thought about a old folks nursing home or just a complex for the elderly?? If your concerned about her well being, I'm 24 and I live in a old folks nursing home (I'm disabled, can't take care of myself, it's a long story) but this place is awsome, we get looked after realllllyyy well ❤ just know there are options, you need to take care of yourself first ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ good luck ❤
@Patriot If it's too much for you consider placing your mother in an assisted living or a nursing home. Depending on what her needs may be. It's not worth putting yourself through such a miserable situation. I know what you're dealing with. My mother is 91. And I took care of her to when she was in her 80s. So I know how challenging it can be. She is now in an assisted living place. And she is doing fine. They take care of all of her needs. I hope this helps you.
