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by Sher217
Last post
 December 20th, 2022
...See more The Family & Caregivers Taglist has been moved!  Just wanted to let everyone know that our taglist has a new 'home' beginning in 2022. This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Family & Caregivers Community Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?5e3f5e73a75214ab42c6ab21499775c0]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words: Please add me To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words: Please remove me Please Note: the previous Taglist of active members is being moved into it's new location. current taglist updated 20Dec 2022 @addyor7 @adventurousPeach7700 @agreeableBlueberry7426 @AlexVincent @almarben2021 @amiableRaspberries644 @Avaray @benkimoo @bestRaspberries1517 @blue0moon @breeuniqemsns @CallunaDee @caringEyes817 @caringPink6587 @CautiousKitten4644 @ClearingBaggage22 @competentParadise6344 @Crankenstein @cyanVase4996 @Daemon85 @dancingIvory @diligentPlace1585 @discreetThinker5846 @DistortionHeart @dtanushree @dynamicPond275 @easyMango9861 @easyZebra1721 @EvelyneRose @fairmindedWisteria3450 @FluffyHamster666 @forcefulFriend4768 @freshOasis7877 @friendlySkies6250 @FrozenRob0t @gentleLove4111 @giraffe2011 @GloriaD @Goddessenergy8 @GoldenNest2727 @goodPapaya8943 @greenDrum7364 @hardworkingKite6195 @hardworkingStrawberries4640 @HempHealer @independentPrune479 @inventiveTurtle5247 @katerina214 @Kickan75 @kindCloud141 @Kjalen97 @lavenderBranch7351 @lilrezvert @Limegreen642 @LISTENER1610 @littleteddy06 @LovetoGod @lovingFlower72 @LovinHope @loyalShade3261 @Lu5566 @Margiewm @marvelloustree1111 @melloohi @miraculousPresence1609 @MissEG1988 @MoonChild1206 @Moonlemon48 @MrMarino @MsVee2021 @munchiegoosie @MusicalMelodyxX @mxmes @MySty2 @neonNest6685 @npetler24 @Onlyonefollower @peacefulPlum1025 @powerfulEast1407 @pramsay57 @quietChestnut6900 @Ramiluz1 @scarletPear1945 @selfconfidentWalker138 @sevtopaloglu @Sher217 @SherryTong @ShyCat1678201 @shymap84001 @Smokescrunch @SoarLikeAnEagle @softMusic9759 @spencer1234567 @Sraphoenix @strangermj12 @StressedTFOut0914 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @tallFriend9158 @Taylorz27 @Tinylemon1 @toughCurrent7546 @TraumaOne @TruckKnitter @turkeybby @unassumingDog4740 @versatileSky19 @VioletPerson1783 @warmheartedSailboat2021 @WillGood @Wisesupports @WorriedNana @yellowSquare6431 @YourNeighbourhoodsuperhero ~ Sher
Boundaries and You
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Last post
 October 11th
...See more Boundaries can be physical or emotional, and they can range from being loose to rigid, with healthy boundaries often falling somewhere in between. This leads to the question, ‘What do healthy boundaries look like?’ To help ourselves answer this important question, the following are a few discussion questions! We invite everyone to participate, with the motive of learning from one another's views. Discussion questions: * Values are the things that are most important to you. Ideally, your boundaries will reflect your values. For example, if you value family time, you might set strict boundaries at work. What are your most important values, and how do your boundaries reflect these values? * What challenges have you faced when trying to set healthy boundaries, and how did you overcome them (or, how could you overcome them)? * What have you noticed as repeated patterns that are perhaps not so ideal for your wellbeing and boundary setting? How can you flip these patterns from negative to positive? What tweaks do you need to make? Your boundaries will shift (or grow) as you do over time! So it is important to reconnect with oneself, reflect upon ourselves, and redefine our boundaries to go with our values and priorities! Looking forward to hearing everyone's responses to the discussion questions!
Supporting your caregiver friend
by Hope
Last post
 September 2nd
...See more Hi everyone! Caregiving is hard to say the least but unless we are in that role, its hard to figure out how to support a caregiver especially as caregivers sometimes struggle with asking for their needs to be met.  * Listen to them share their struggles, highs and lows.  * Offer practical help: Can you pick up groceries, run errands, or watch their loved one for an hour? Time is their most precious currency. * Be mindful of their schedule and limitations when planning activities.  * Sometimes they need space, sometimes they crave company. Communicate Remember, even small gestures can make a big difference.  Let's share more tips in the comments! How do you support your caregiver friends?
hello
by romasgirl
Last post
 February 14th
...See more hello, i joined this group because i needed to talk about my family, my mom is verbally abusive, my brother is physically abusive and my sister too. i dont know how to deall with it all
An Essay: The Impact of an Ill Relative on the Family Dynamic
by blitheSun94
Last post
 December 22nd, 2023
...See more Colorado summer kissed the morning sky as a storm boiled in the cauldron heart of the mountains. For someone I've always been reluctant to love was unwittingly lying at death's door, and the toll of the word "caregiver" loomed overhead. Beyond the world of my wildest imagination lied this request that would restructure my character. Being a caregiver can lead to emotional turbulence due to sacrifice, financial burden, and health care system navigation. In our youth Colorado was a novelty that afforded escape from the Midwestern tundra we inherited. We abandoned our well-paying employers and familial support to venture into the unknown. The dark skies and inevitable moods that followed were alleviated by the promise of three hundred and sixty days of sun. So, we packed our bags and would never return. Ben, the brother of my lover, would welcome us into the mouth of madness that year as we settled for a small condo in the Rocky Mountains. Impulsive and haphazard planning would isolate us from the resources of necessity. With a great deal of pride we severed our safety nets. After perusing small town Main Street during our second week in Grand County, urgency of priority boldly interrupted our morning coffee as strange symptoms surfaced at the breakfast table. Ben was transported to a local clinic where routine tests followed with the assumption of diabetes as it appeared in his family history. His mother, nervous and convicted, informed me she was making the eighteen hour commute from her home to ours and would arrive by morning. The following day Ben was seen by a specialist, admitted to the hospital, transferred to intensive care where his heart nearly gave out, and was subsequently placed on dialysis for kidney failure. After a gulp of whiskey and two hours down the mountain, I slept in the glacial waiting halls of ICU with an infant on my hip and no understanding to speak of. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention report one in 10 American adults, more than 20 million, have some level of chronic kidney disease. Ben's case was unique in that he was tragically young and virtually a medical mystery. Blood work, a bone marrow biopsy, and thirty rounds of doctors followed his case all with zero answers inside the first ten days. Ben remained physically stabilized, while his psychological well-being went into orbit, and we felt the strain creep in. Due to our carefully selected isolation, receiving quality health care posed a challenge. The hospital in our county, for example, had one dialysis machine in its inventory and not a single nurse on payroll that was trained to utilize it. Medical practice was replaced by simply not knowing, dietary changes were implemented, otherwise livable income was replaced by laughable disability dollars, and weekend camping trips were otherwise occupied by arguing health-insurance loop-holes and pharmacy pit-falls. As a caregiver, I was unable to find effective support in my community beside our deliberate drive to leave our families behind. Thirty boxes of supplies and dialysis solution would be delivered to my two-bedroom condo in the mountains each month. The five stages of grief had plundered into my home. Within the first two years Ben would accumulate six figures of debt that would send me in tearful rages away from my P.O Box with the ridiculous notion that it was even feasible to pay them. The atmosphere of mental health declined considerably for us all and Ben, understandably so, struggled with the temptation of suicide. In this moment, Margaret Dulaney’s words in fact ring true: “There must be some truth to the notion that a healthy mind will produce a healthy body, but it can be a cruel, heartless notion for those who are not healing if they are made to feel responsible not only for their inability to heal but for the disease itself.” We have managed to escape the claws of a falsified dream despite meandering sanity and relationship casualty. Our perspective remains forever changed having trudged waist deep through the health care system in honor of those closest to us. We have buried our dead, and graciously strive to rebuild from financial and emotional collapse in the heart of the American south. More pervasively perhaps, we are no longer the adolescent offspring who without provocation, dare to venture from the nest.
What is one thing that your parents/guardians did right?
by Hope
Last post
 November 28th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are well. A lot of times, human beings tend to focus on the areas of improvement, and what could have gone better. Admittedly, family relationships can be complicated and some parents do not meet their children's basic needs. This thread is not for people who had an entirely negative experience but rather for those who are still in touch with their families and have a complicated but present relationship with their parents.  A chance for us to reflect on what parents/guardians did right. This does not forgive any wrongdoings but rather helps one to see grey areas rather than seeing our childhood as black or white. 
What is your best Halloween memory?
by tommy
Last post
 October 30th, 2023
...See more Thinking back to all your Halloween memories... which is your best one? Which is the funniest? Share them all below 🎃 I think one highlight of my childhood would be when I thought it was "trickle treating" rather than trick or treating! 
One person I want to spend more time within my family is…
by Hope
Last post
 September 24th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are doing well. Think of all the people in your family and then those who you wish to spend more time with. Its hard to catch up with people for so many reasons. One person I want to spend more time within my family is…
Unwritten rules in your family?
by Hope
Last post
 July 30th, 2023
...See more Hi all! Families are complex, they have many similarities and differences. Your family may not be like your neighbors and similarly, the values and rules in a family tend to differ. What is an unwritten rule in your family, what happens if it is not followed?
What does family mean to you?
by Hope
Last post
 June 21st, 2023
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. Family is a word that can mean very different things to people. Some are filled with warmth when they hear family while for others it brings up painful feelings. Regardless of the kind of impact a family has on one, we can’t deny that the impact itself is huge whether positive or negative, and most of the time mixed. Question for you! What comes to mind when you hear the word family?
Gratitude and Family
by Hope
Last post
 May 24th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are well. Too often we are annoyed by something(s) our family does and it is normal. Keeping in mind the family that we meet along the treacherous path of life. Who are you grateful to be related to or have found in life that you considered family?
Kindness Challenge
by PeaceLoveandPaws
Last post
 May 3rd, 2023
...See more According to the dictionary … Kindness is defined as the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. But kindness means so much more ... Kindness can mean different things to different people. The meaning is in how YOU choose to show it. Be it through empathy, acceptance, kind gestures, thoughtfulness, the possibilities are entirely up to you. Kindness might look like being helpful or showing empathy. It may mean doing nice things without expecting nice things in return. (source: Kindness 101 | Meaning | Definition | What Is Kindness | Inspire Kindness [https://inspirekindness.com/blog/kindness-101]) Our challenge to you… We challenge you, the community, to commit a random act of kindness today. Then, come back to this post and share your story. Most importantly, tell us how it made you feel to spread kindness. To be added to Family and Caregivers community taglist click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/FamilyCaregiverSupport_191/WelcomesIntroductionsIcebreakersGames_310/NewTaglistFamilyCaregiversSubCommunity_229656/] Learn about opportunities to join our leadership team and check out our help-wanted post click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/FamilyCaregiverSupport_191/FamilyandCaregiversLeadershipTeam_1735/HelpWantedforFamilyCaregivers_228061/] Your feedback is valuable to us as we continue to strive for excellence. If you wish to leave feedback, please do so HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe_u4QePbWE-uWGmfiI-vC3BqRb3fdlzgYqSpuU-mORj_SaCA/viewform]
Reset
by compassionateCar7091
Last post
 May 1st, 2023
...See more Reset Sunday is a must for me

Family & Caregivers

Welcome to Family & Caregivers! This is a supportive space to share your thoughts and experiences.

“The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other,”  Richard Bach.


What are the different forum topics for Family & Caregivers?

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Help! I still have a question! 

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Community Guidelines

Guidelines specific to Family Support Community

1) Be polite, and non-judgmental - Everyone has a different idea of what a "family".  No two families are alike, so please be open-minded and supportive to everyone who shares here. 

2) Please use appropriate language for all ages - This community supports both teens and adults.  Curse/cuss words will be removed from posts.  

3) Some topics may be triggering - If you find a topic here triggering please step away and take a moment of self-care. We try to be inclusive and discuss a wide variety of topics so there will be something for everyone.

4) The GOLDEN RULE - We are Family! We will be polite, friendly, caring, compassionate and offer support to everyone to the best of our abilities. You will be polite too!

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Domestic Assault https://www.7cups.com/domestic-assault-survivor/  

Questions & Answers https://www.7cups.com/qa-family-stress-23/    

Financial Stress https://www.7cups.com/qa-financial-stress-26/  

Sleeping Well https://www.7cups.com/sleeping-well/   

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