Is it okay for me to be depressed over the loss of someone I didn’t know?
Hello y’all, lately I’ve been feeling pretty depressed about the passing of my biological father. He passed away almost three years ago from a heroin overdose, but the thing is, I didn’t really know him. I was 17 when he passed, and before he passed away I kept having thoughts about reaching out to him. However, I missed my chance. I just feel depressed because I miss him. I wish I had gotten to know him. I’m sad that I didn’t get the opportunity to have a relationship with my own father. I wish he was still alive, I wish I could’ve helped him. I feel selfish because it feels like I’m only focusing on what I wanted and how I feel. What about him, what if he never wanted me in his life anyways? I guess I just needed to talk about this, thank you all for reading. I would appreciate some tips to help me cope with this loss if you guys would like to give input. Is it wrong for me to feel bad about it? Thank y’all so much ♥︎