My only goal is to outlive my dogs
Hi everyone. Thanks for reading this. I'm 35, female. I'm severely depressed and I don't know what to do about it anymore. I'm wait for insurance to (hopefully) approve TMS treatment, but I'm scared it won't work.
Anyway. I spoke to an ex yesterday. He's someone who was very bad for me, he has anger issues and almost never said he loved me. But I was crazy in love with him. We broke up 2 years ago and I still love him. He has a new girlfriend now, of course. But I had a biopsy yesterday for skin cancer and it made me want to tell him that I still love him, and miss him. I don't want to be with him. He was not good to me. But it still crushed me to learn about his girlfriend.
It doesn't help that I'm totally and utterly alone. I have a roommate, who is my asexual ex bf and coworker. But that's not a healthy relationship and that's literally all I've got. I've given up on the idea that I'll ever find love. But how do I stop the pain associated with unrequited love. There's got to be a healthy way to deal with it.
I've been making poor choices lately. But I just don't feel like there's any point to life anymore.