Footprints in the sand ... living alone

I have been living alone for nearly 20 years now, with brief stays with my family ( parents and kin ) in between. I would like to say that we all do matter and that we do impact others lives, although this may not be noticeable to us.

I have always been a pathbreaker and although it's sometimes like a sore thumb sticking out, but people have come up to me and commended me for it ( after cutting me down initially ). We are all pathbreakers in our own little ways. People may not come up to us and share this. So, when we do leave this earthly abode there are footprints in the sand where we had walked. In short, we matter, everyone matters.

My faith has helped me cope with loneliness a lot. I view every individual as a God created miracle. This also set my expectations right, in the sense that I do not envy others enjoying life with partners ( and kicking myself by comparing ), since every individual follows their own course of life.

I avoid backbiters, gossipers, cussers and rude people as I have observed that these are BIG triggers in my life. By avoiding them, I can better cope with loneliness.

The internet has been a BOON to me. I confess I would be left adrift without it. I can post/share my thoughts and try and help others. Best part ? I can mute trolls. Doesn't happen in real life.

Hobbies have also helped me cope. Hope this helps somewhat. :)