Worthless
So I started feeling like this in elementary school, I was a straight A student but never seemed to make my parents proud of me. My mother always had a favorite till this day (that don
@je08302 *hugs* I'm so sorry your life has had so much pain in it. No one here is judging you. That's not what 7 Cups is about. We're here to support each other, and all of us have experienced some kind of pain, or we wouldn't be here. (And you certainly aren't the only person her who copes with persistent suicide ideation.)
You aren't worthless. Self-esteem can be hard to come by, but it's especially hard when we start the habit at a young age of looking for validation from others.
We watched this video in a 7 Cups chat the other day, and I thought it had some really good information about self-efficacy. Check it out, if you like. :)
@je08302 well, if you want you can trade it with me, have a nice sleep and I will have all your wealth but ofc in 1 week that will back to normal again... The problem was YOU are TOO MUCH COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS!!
how can you be loved if you are not loving yourself first?
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND ACCEPT IT AS IT IS AND STOP THINKING TOO MUCH JUST ENJOY YOUR WEALTH AND LIFE!!
NOT LOVE BY PARENTS? SO WHAT? YOU HAVE YOURSELF!!
FOCUS ON LOVING YOURSELF FIRST BY START STOP!! COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS!!
@GhostBunnywhite
Hiw do you love your self if you were never thought to do that? When I was growing up my parents always put me down... I do try and I try not to think about stupid things but at the end it
@je08302
We must not dwell on the past and look for answers that are not there. Oprah Winfrey was raped, mistreated and had a hard life. If she had taken into consideration she was not taught love from other people, she would not be were she is today. sometimes we must pick ourselves up and see that we have worth as humans. Even if you dont value yourself, every soul has a worth as infinite as the universe. You have to build that love for yourself. Go in the mirror and tell yourself you love the person you are. Even if you dont believe it.
WORTH LESS ?
just add more until THE END..
WORTH ED !!
@je08302 well little advice, don't feel too much!! don't think too much!!
DO WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!
STUDY and learn from expert people!!
WORK hard!!
BEING POSITIVE !!
@je08302
I'm so sorry to hear you feel worthless and have had such a hard time in your life. I can understand how horrible it feels to compare yourself to your brother. I do the same thing when it comes to my siblings. I barely talk to my family, but that's more on me than them though.
Have you gotten help from a professional? I think you need to see someone. I too suffer from depression due to my bipolar disorder. Its hard to go through days where you feel like giving up and ending your life is the answer to it all. But, ending it all is not the answer. I had a cousin who took his own life a little over 20 years ago, and to this day it still affects me. I wish he had sought the help he needed. It's too late for him now, but it's not too late for you. You can get better. It may not seem like it, but you can. YOU ARE WORTH IT!
