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Should I Tell Her?

goldenBike2883 March 19th, 2021

I have been struggling with things that happened in the past, and building it up all inside, without anyone knowing a thing. Its caused me anxiety, sadness, unhappiness, and fear. I have finally decided to tell my mom, because she usually knows everything about me, except this. I feel like if i tell her it will lift a big weight off my shoulders, and make me feel so much better. My only problem is, i dont have the courage to tell her, and if i do how to?

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Celaeno April 17th, 2021

Hi @goldenBike2883!

I do not know if you have already told your mom about your struggle with depression. But I understand your fear. I kept hiding my condition from my family for years. I understand the guilt, and shame. I understand the feeling of not wanting to burden your loved ones.

However, in my situation, when I finally decided to share my illness with my family I was taken aback how much love and support I have received. I certainly do not regret telling them. But your situation can be different. As long as you feel safe and secure, and trust your mum, I would say - take a leap of faith.

Let us know how are you doing lately, lovely.

*hugs*