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fairmindedAcai5065 December 12th, 2020

I'm just so lonely and I'm scared to be alone with myself while I'm depressed. I recently lost my Guinea pig. And I've never felt so lonely. I've got my family around and I'm still feeling lonely. Dont have a lot of friends in real life. I just want this feeling to go away I wanna feel like me again. I dont even recognize myself anymore and that scares me. I'm getting myself admitted tonight because I can't take it anymore.

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NguyenHoangLong December 12th, 2020

@fairmindedAcai5065 I've listened to what you have said. I don't know what to say now. I guess that you know your situation better than I do, so what can I do for you? I'm listening.

KendylJ December 13th, 2020

@fairmindedAcai5065

Hello there. Sometimes the hardest part is admitting you need help, and I am so proud of you for doing so!

My cat, Lady, passed away a couple years ago. When I lost her, I felt so hurt and powerless. It truly feels like you've lost a member of your family. And in a way, a pet is a big part of your family. They're always there for you, sometimes being in their company is better than being with a person.

I can tell that you have a lot of love for your guinea pig. They were fortunate to spend their short time on this planet with someone who loved and cared for them.

I don't know if you believe in life after death, but I do, and I'm sure that your guinea pig is in a meadow with plenty of food to eat and toys to play with. : )

I often feel lonely as well, and I want you to know that’s perfectly ok. After losing a loved one who provided you with comfort, you will feel the sharp sting of loss. Sometimes it takes a while to recover emotionally, but by the end, I hope you leave with the knowledge that you made your guinea pig’s life 1000x better. When in your company they felt safe, protected, and cared for.

I don't know if this helped much, but I truly hope it has. I want you to know that even though we may not know each other, I care for you and you are loved dearly. You are important and matter.

I would love to hear back from you if possible.

I'm here for you.