Being heard
@EnergySensitive
Hey! Not being heard can be hurtful for sure. Have you felt like that at times? <3 If yes, what helped you cope with the negative feelings that came with it?
@River
I feel like that everyday. Nothing helps. Not even this site. Yes you responded but how about other posts asking for opinions or venting or trying to make at least cyber friends. To only being ignored. But I apparently don't even deserve a cyber friend/support, let alone a real person in my life.
@EnergySensitive
Hey, I would like to point out its valid to feel that way and I agree not all get responses and I hope they would. <3 What makes you feel like you dont deserve a friend/support in your life? (Its totally okay if you dont want to answer. ) I hope things get better for you and you find a support system whom you can rely on.
@River
I'm just not worth the time or energy. People in my life have made it clear that I'm nothing.
@EnergySensitive i can understand you very well regarding real friends. I feel the same frustration like you. But to be honest you have to ask youself if these people were the right people if they didn‘t apperciated you? Because if they didn‘t, they didn‘t deserve your friendship. Better you are alone than with fake friends who don‘t support you when you really need them. Of course i don‘t know you at all but self analyzing is very important too. maybe your actions in front of them influenced their reaction? If yes you can work on it to prevent that the same will happen again with other people.
And never forget it‘s always taking and giving/ if for example: you feel so bad and depressed that your always talking only about yourself and your problems with your friends it will never be a healty friendship becaus they will not come with their problems to you because you have enough yourself and they will also not come with positive messages they would like to share because it‘s respectless in front of a depressed friend... so they will try to hide from you because they know your negativity. And everybody hides from negativity.
That‘s my experience and i hope i could help you a little. Don‘t let your head down you will find the right people when your ready. Even if it‘s only one good friend. Better one best friend than 10 fake ones...
