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River
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Number of ratings210 Number of reviews68 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, Nepali Listener sinceMay 11, 2017 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 983 People helped280 Chats2,620 Group support chats1,098 Listener group chats733 Forum posts3,295 Forum upvotes5,454
Bio
*** I am really sorry but I am giving up all my site roles as of November due to my health issues and personal life taking over. So I probably wont be responding to messages. ***

When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. 




-Harriet Beecher Stowe

Hello everyone! *Waves* Its me, River. Welcome to my bio <3 

For members: 

I am here to listen about anything you want to talk about and be there for you. I might not be able to lessen your pain but I will try to share your pain and understand the situation you might be at the moment. I am also totally okay to talk randomly if you are feeling alone and ask icebreaker questions to eachother. I am usually good at chat related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, BPD, forgiveness, grief, trauma and abuse. I. however am not taking sexual chats, sorry about it! <3 

For Listeners:

I have been around 7cups from more than 2 years, so if you need any help about anything related to 7cups, please dont hesitate to leave a pm.

My involvement in 7cups: 

Forum Mentor Leader: I work on logistic and organization side of forum team and help with trainings and onboarding of forum team members. I am around if you ever have any questions regarding forums and leadership positions related to it in general.

Forum Mentor: I am a global forum mentor <3 

Global group mod: I help in group rooms to keep them safe place for everyone. <3 

My special twins: 

@Love8890 (She is mah soul sistah <3 We also confuse people all around due to same pfp hahahaha! I love ya Sel sel <3 )
@HeyItsRoo (Caught chu :p I miss catchiing youu <3 )

*passes out cookies for reaching till the end of mah bio*





 
Recent forum posts
Introducing Team Lightship!
Community Projects & Events / by River
Last post
 April 25th, 2023
...See more Good news! Social Soldiers team is being revamped as Project Lightship with the changes in how it will work. <3 🐾 Click to check 2022 updated requirements [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/SocialMediaOutreachTeamLightship_1619/2022UpdatedRequirementsandFAQ_269900/1/#2871830] What is project lightship and what is its objective? Project Lightship is the revival of Social Soldiers team which was created with the intent on eliminating the stigma that comes along with mental illness on social media, guiding those who are depressed/having a hard time/need someone to talk to right here to 7Cups. As the previous project leaders stated: Our goal is to combat mental health stigma by going out and finding those who need us the most and bringing them to our safe haven. In accomplishing this goal, we will simultaneously combat stigma head on and take a stance that it is not only okay to get support when you need it, its a healthy and wonderful thing to do for yourself! We are currently starting the lightship team with twitter and have one track you can contribute in: Reaching out to 20 people letting them know about the 7cups through the twitter account & making 5 mental health-related posts raising awareness about it You are welcome to contribute more, those are the minimum requirements to fulfil every month. Who can join the Lightship Team? Both listeners and members who meet the requirements can join the team. (Yes, teens can join the team too, yay!) What are the requirements to join the team? For the listener, 1+ month as a listener Verified Listener Listener Oath For the member, 1+ month as a member Member Oath Both listeners and members will be required to sign the guidelines form(Linked to application) agreeing to follow the guidelines of the team and 7cups. Any violations in guidelines will be taken seriously & result in behaviour points. (Learn more about how behavior points HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/BehavioralRatingSystem_2108/2020s7CupsBehaviorReportingProcessTrackingUpdatedVersion_226446/]) What are the guidelines of the team? Once someone has reached out to you about your application and has given you approval, it is your responsibility to make your own Twitter account, with your 7 Cups handle name (eg rebecca947=@rebecca7Cups). Please send your login credentials to the lightship email thelightshipteam@gmail.com prior to beginning your month. Lightship Team's social media accounts should not be used for personal use. The account is created for spreading 7cups which means we are using them to spread support and awareness, on these accounts you should only follow lighthearted accounts, 7 Cups approved Lightship accounts and other mental health-related accounts. Please turn off the public DMing feature on your Team Lightship's account. Please ensure your account is set to public. Please do not follow/interact with Listeners/Members on their personal social media accounts or unapproved Lightship Team accounts. You are to represent yourself as a trained active listener and not a mental health professional, crisis counsellor or paid employee of 7 Cups. If you chose to leave the Lightship Team, it is your responsibility to deactivate your account entirely. If you agree to the mentioned guidelines above and meet the requirements to join the team, you can fill up THIS(Click me) [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfX626sr0ncIGRnw6kSqYC6F6QSXv1wx4ZLhrsb4ScdtH1drA/viewform] form. After it, someone from the team will reach out to you to let you know if your application has been approved and to help with setting up the social media account. If you have any queries regarding it, feel free to reach out to @DreamTouch [http://7cups.com/@DreamTouch] or @ouiCherie [http://7cups.com/@ouiCherie] *edited by forum mentor @rebecca947 to edit coleads and add additional information*
New to the Depression Support Community in February 2020? Say Hello here! And get to know others who joined in February too!
Depression Support / by River
Last post
 March 30th, 2020
...See more Welcome to the Depression Support Community! We are really glad to have you here. We would really love to hear from you, even if its just a simple Hello! Feel free to reply to other people's post as well but please do remember to be supportive to one another!. Here are few links to get you started in the community: Join us in our checkins HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/DailyCheckinThreads_954/] Join the taglist HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/DepressionSupportCommunityLeadershipTeam_404/AutomatedDepressionSCTaglist_215741/] Check out the Depression Resource Masterpost HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupport_52/DepressionResources_214/DepressionResourceMasterpost_50660/]
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Feedback & Reviews
Awesome listener and very sweet. Spent time with me up to a few mins before a class she was attending. Lovely woman & did not feel judged. Thank you🙏
Such a gem! Very patient listener
She's an amazing and kind listener. She's the best.
Such an amazing listener ❤️ We be soul sistahs ❤️ Love you Didi ❤️
:") bestest ever listener ❤🐐
A wholesome and active person who empathises with you and is ready to give advices to help any given situation.
They are a very good listener and was really helping.
She is great and lovely listener,and makes hearts💕in the chat which is great
River is the absolute best. always coming up with a solution. Amazing!
Super nice talks to u like a real friend :))
Very good person to talk with
They were very kind and listened to me about whatever I needed to talk about. She was very supportive and cared very much about my issue.
river is awesome!
she's kind, understandable, friendly :) Thank you :)
River Is so awesome
do you wanna build a snowman? Yes, yes I do.
Rose is the best!
Amazing listener
Great, very helpful, attentive.
Thank you for all your help. I am lucky I got to talk to you. You are so sweet and easy to talk to.
She is really awesome and great. I never felt more understood before. She was open-minded about my situations and made me see the situation in completely different way. I appreciate her for her help in it.
so kind and compasionate
Great listener.
Great help!
Caring
Thanks.
She did a great job in helping me cope with my thoughts. Never thought anyone could understand this well.
Such an amazing person that was willing to help me through everything and stay with me. She really helped me through a rough spot i am forever grateful.
really nice and understanding with almost immediate responses, kind of wish it didn't feel rushed though.
Very kind and thoughful!
She really helped me through my panic attack. My mind was off the cause as she led me through the five senses which slowed my heart rate down and calmed my nerves. I really felt like I was in a therapy session!
She was patient and understanding.
SHE IS THE BEST!!!
I was frustated when I started talking to her. But now I am happy. She is a big bubble of happiness who can distribute smiles all around. I am glad that I found her. If you havent talked to her yet, you are missing out a very great person. If you are reading this to know if she is good, then I recommend her as one of the best in stress related talks.
great great listener. Easy to talk to. (:
I felt cared when I talked to them. She was kind, professional and helpful. Asked questions that actually helped. I would give her 100 on 100. Certainly connecting with her again!! Thank u.
Very supportive definitely made me feel better . Supper sweet 😊💗
really understanding and kind
thnx
They are the best! Helped cailm me down.
Great help. I will certainly reccomend her
She's helpful
great!
Overall nice
Great help! Made the member account just to talk with her again!
Wonderful! Definately recommend her!
You are a nice good listener
Thank you girl thank you so so so much
Pureriver is a good listener to me
I love how she understands me and tries to find a possible outcome to my difficulties..... she's really helpful and tries her best to help in any way possible
Nice person
I love her!
Really really nice and really helpful. I can't tell you how much important it was to talk to someone like you :)
I am glad that I found someone who understands me and listen to me without judging. She made me realize I am important and my feelings and thinking matters. Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!! She was friendly and easy to talk to as well! I felt like I could trust her and share everything!!!
Nice person, spent over an hour talking and was overall lovely and helpful x Thankyou x
She is very helpful in understanding.
I feel like someone actually cares and is always going to be there
Very good listener listened to me without judging
Really professional and nice.
Pretty good
Great listener.
A nice listener... 5 stars ... im happy i found someone to really listen to my problems :)
Pretty good.
Listened without judging me. Thank you
Thank you
It was good
She's very kind and
Amazing
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