I don't know what to do
I don't know what to do anymore. We just had our long exams i practically failed in my other subjects, I worked hard for it. I don't want to disappoint my parents. I want to be in the top 20 of my batch. Currently i'm top 33. And damn. I'm stressing myself for this. But then i failed. And i don't know what to do. We have to show or exams to our parents. They'll be sad and disappointed and i'm just making a lot of scenarios in my head. i'm giving up again. I just want to break down.
Hi @cantfindhappiness it sounds like things feel out of control right now. You seem very focused on your studies and have a strong sense of I want to do well which is great. You mention that you worked so hard to get the grades you wanted, and I am sorry that did not happen. However they is a great quote my Granma use to share with me "If you try to do your best there is no failure". Mike Farrell. I can understand you being worried about your parents reaction as we all want to make them proud. However I am proud of you for trying your hardest and for that you will never fail in my eyes. If you want to please reach out to myself , another listener 1-1 or join one of our support rooms. You do not have to do this alone.
Five Ways to Make Peace With Failure
There's no one that's 100% successful. The most successful people are the ones that often failed the most.
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." - Michael Jordan