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Christmas Depression

User Profile: OceanBreeze
OceanBreeze December 23rd, 2014

Is it weird to feel depressed about Christmas?

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User Profile: Shanna
Shanna December 23rd, 2014

I'm sorry you're feeling down @JodiCogburn, but it isn't weird at all that Christmas is making you feel that way. Unfortunately, it's actually very common to feel depressed around the holidays or for existing depression to deepen due to the family-oriented nature of the holiday, pressure to have a good time, overwhelming obligations such as seeing relatives and buying gifts, and conflicting feelings about the year coming to a close.

I'mnot sure what your exact reasons are, but whatever they know that it isn't weird and I'm here anytime you'd like to talk, I'm sorry it's a tough time of year for you.

User Profile: MleFay
MleFay December 23rd, 2014

Like Shanna said, it is very normal to feel depressed around the holidays. There are so many expectations, social and otherwise, that can contribute to depression and anxiety this time of the year. Talking about the your struggle can be really helpful so it's good you're being open about it. As I'm sure you know, there are many listeners on here who would love to talk to you more about your struggles. Itmight help take the edge off to have a chat about it. :)

User Profile: MirandaD
MirandaD December 24th, 2014

It's not weird at all. In fact, as these other lovely listeners have mentioned - it's very common!

There's a lot of stress related to the holidays: seeing family you don't particularily care for, missing loved ones you cannot see, feeling alone,cleaning and prep for guests, long travel times, spending money on gifts, and the anxiety of 'what if they don't like it?', and just the general exhaustion that comes with social get-togethers.

Also remember that the decreased amount of sunlight tends to aggravate S.A.D. (Seasonal Affective Disorder) which can make people miserable in the winter.

Please remember that we're all here for you, and I'm certain some listeners will be taking time out of their holiday festivities to be here for those individuals who are having a hard time. <3

User Profile: SelfChaos
SelfChaos December 24th, 2014

I get depressed around Christmas almost every year since I turned 12 and it's always because everyone else does everything perfectly and makes everything seem so easy while in the meantime I'm struggling and messing up constantly.

User Profile: Connectingthedots
Connectingthedots December 24th, 2014

The holidays are just do hard. I feel like they're all about being around people you love and feeling loved...but they just make me feel more alone than ever.

User Profile: EmpatheticDude
EmpatheticDude December 24th, 2014

I know how you feel. I can't wait for it to be over. But don't, it will be done with soon. I just try to hunker down, sleep a lot, and before you know it, BAM! no more Christmas! Hang in there, buddy.

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User Profile: MikePGC
MikePGC December 24th, 2014

I am really struggling with depression this year. It's the first year I've been on my own for about 40 yrs. I hate this feeling. I thought I had a handle on it but the closer it's got the worse my feelings have become.

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User Profile: Tranihere
Tranihere December 25th, 2014


Today is Christmas and I cannot think of a worse day in the year.

Although the I found this interesting article...

http://mobile.news.com.au/lifestyle/health/feeling-sad-at-christmas-time-youre-not-alone/story-fniym874-1227164253451

​I just want to get back into bed and sleep. Wait until this day is over.

User Profile: Sandipie
Sandipie December 25th, 2014

I just want to get through the holiday without drama and as quickly as possible.I have anxiety and depression and I have to work tonight. Need help getting through.

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User Profile: motherlaura7
motherlaura7 December 25th, 2014

I just got a panic attack. On my way to the candlelight service. I had to fight traffic to get back to my house. My stomach is in knots. And i feel like dying. Maybe too much anxiety. I didnt know it was coming on. Just something triggered it. So here i am. Another Christmas. Everyone is saying" oh no " not sick again this christmas. Like i can help it. I didnt try and worry or do too much. It s just all too much without trying. Thank you all for listening.

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User Profile: Heavenlyhorizons
Heavenlyhorizons December 25th, 2014

I'm so sorry that you are feeling that way! Yeah it is normal.I felt like that practically this whole month.Christmas is one of the most stressful times for me.It just brings back memories I just don't want to remember.