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User Profile: skyraven02
skyraven02 December 31st, 2024

I would love a week long break away from everyone. I would love to drink again. I would love to be happy. I would love to not get so mad at the kids I want to leave the house. I don't spank them because when I get mad I worry that if I start I wont stop. I don't like how I am anymore. I get set off so easily. I'm not the same person I was when the older kids where little.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 31st, 2024

@skyraven02

you ask how someone would feel if they got this note... there are many variables to consider

did you know this person was at their breaking point prior to this note?   

Can things be changed or is it possible for them to get time away?  Have they considered talking to someone to deal with their stress like a counselor/ therapist or even creating an account here you never need to let them know you are here.    Our patience does wear thin and i did not have the patience with my youngest child that i did with eldest.  What can the kids do to help ?  Are they a handful or is your partners stress level so high they think kids are worse then they actually are? 

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User Profile: skyraven02
skyraven02 OP December 31st, 2024

I actually wrote this and sent it to my husband last night

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 31st, 2024

@skyraven02

Ahh -ha  well i was looking at it from a receiving aspect....

i guess similar questions still apply DOES he know or is aware of your stress?   many act as if they do not. 

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User Profile: skyraven02
skyraven02 OP December 31st, 2024

He knows just ignores it. but I also quit bringing it up because there’s only so many letters emails text messages you can send

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