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dumping problems on friends and loseing them

TeaGreenTea12 April 14th, 2023

does anyone dump their issues on friends and then they stop talking to u or block u? i frel bery ashamed. one of ny friends we share each other location but she stopped reply to my texts since late march and hasnt respindeed wince. i noticed i dump mh problems on people way too much. i feel alone every day and wish that finding a listener isnt like waiting for a "perfec match". i wish i can find a listener i can share all my issuers with

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jennysunrise8 April 17th, 2023

@TeaGreenTea12 there can be a lot of possible reasons why your friend hasnt messaged back i know your worried its because you shared too many things with them but try and remind yourself that you dont know why and thats hard not knowing what happened to someone but especially when it comes to relationships that are just online that can happen this friend could have just lost their internet connection or so many other things that prevents them from contacting you right now i hope you hear from them soon and if you ever want to talk to someone you can message me anytime

bestVase7265 April 18th, 2023

There are lots of reasons that "friends" decide to ignore you. But you aren't who your friends say you are. You are so much more. I know how much it all hurts though.

What kinds of other things do you do to distract yourself?@TeaGreenTea12

Heart4art April 18th, 2023

@TeaGreenTea12 Sounds like you miss your friend. When we feel ghosted it is definitely a hard thing to go through. It isn't necessarily the case here, but sometimes we can overwhelm people with our problems. I've done it! Have you thought about becoming a listener yourself? You sound like you would be a good one. Sometimes helping others helps us too.

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TeaGreenTea12 OP April 18th, 2023

ill tjink about that, im very empathetic and non judgmental so if i were dumped with issues i wouldnt mind it myself if i had friends like day so to me

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