Why do I always feel responsible for things that aren't my fault?
Everytime in a social aspect, I feel like I'm to blame. People didn't respond- "I made them mad." Something is delayed -"I should have been faster in fixing it." I'm constantly fighting myself trying to make myself believe Im not at fault. It's like one side of me always is screaming that I'm the problem...and I'm exhausted
@fairmindedBalsam4236
You are Not the problem or the reason .... life happens and unless you did something on purpose it is NOT you.
If someone does NOT call or text you back think of how many things can go wrong........ they saw text at a time they think they will get back to you and forget til later/ dead cell zones still some places out there phone battery .... maybe wi-fi issues phone lost / stolen.
Yet we think it is US see how unlikely that is? we can not always fix issues that just pop up and when we see how unlikely we could prevent things from happening it is easier to let go of trying to see fault in ourselves. Life happens and no one is perfect so why punish ourselves for things we have no control.