Is marriage necessary in life?
Marriage brings many expectations from family and your partner, along with a lot of responsibilities and sacrifices, especially for women. Right now, I feel content with myself and don't feel the need for anyone else. When you bring someone into your life, it adds more expectations, and that can be painful. So, I think it's best to skip marriage, focus on fulfilling your dreams, and if you want a family, consider adopting a child instead.
In this internet age, do you think someone will regret not getting married and not having a partner? Nowadays, with the internet, we have many ways to keep ourselves entertained. If we're feeling bored, we can listen to music, dance, learn new things, or even talk to strangers like we're doing right now.
What's your thoughts on this? Any advice on single parenting? Suggestions/ your pov are most welcomed š
@navySea3717 I tell people I āforgotā to get married and have kids lol. At one time, I wanted to be married and have a family and I felt quite down that it wasnāt happening. I have some trauma in my life from men, and it was hard for me to form a relationship with them. I decided that I was going to focus on the positive aspects of being singleā¦my time and money are my own, I donāt have to pick up after another person, I am free to make my own decisions. That being said, there are also plenty of times I long for companionship. I know it can still happen in my life, but I also know that I will need to do a lot of work on myself first. Until then, Iām enjoying the things in life I can because Iām not in a relationship. And Iāve been able to find some happiness in that.
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I think each person is different. Sometimes a person that you want to marry appears in your life and sometimes they don't. I agree that making marriage a life goal can be damaging.
I would go with how you are feeling right now and then see where it leads you. @navySea3717
@navySea3717 interesting take on marriage!
In my point of view, what matters is selfless and giving relationships. Where your focus is on giving. So wherever I am capable of doing that, whether outside marriage or in marital life, I'd want to be there.
