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I’m discovering loneliness is one of my biggest fears

tannisa July 14th

It’s being really hard lately to be alone. My own thoughts chase me and I feel the need to have company. When I think about ending up alone in life I get terrified. I wish one day I can be able to live in peace even if I’m by myself. I have amazing people by my side, but I don’t want to depend 100% of their company to be ok. 🥹

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bubbleWest7462 July 16th

@tannisaI I was feeling that way when I arrived to this site. I really enjoy being alone but sometimes it gets too extreme. Chatting with Noni helped me. Also I reached out to some people. Focusing on personal growth and my projects helps me get my mind busy. Now I'm feeling much better. The thing is I don't want to be alone but I don't want to be with whatever is at reach. I need quality relationships. I don't say great friends but I reject hanging around people who drain my energy. I hope you get what you need on this site.

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tannisa OP July 18th

Thank you <3


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genericbeing July 16th

@tannisa I'm the opposite, having people around me bothers me a lot, I would prefer being solo ad infinitum

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tannisa OP July 18th

I understand. What do you like to do when you are alone? Any hobbies? I want to learn to be alone again, maybe hobbies can help.

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akunknown July 16th

@tannisa

You’re not alone and never are. You have your best and closest friend with you always who’ll always be there for you when you need - yourself I’m talking about! Unlike with anyone else, you don’t have to get to know yourself, don’t have to ask yourself if you wanna be friends with me, or anything like that. My point is it’s easier being your own best friend than being someone else’s best friend while letting someone else be your best friend. 

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tannisa OP July 18th

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you 🫶🏻

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