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I can’t be with her anymore

MetalEnthusiast April 26th

I can’t be with her anymore. I’ve been losing feelings and I’ve tried to stick it out but I don’t have the energy to keep this up anymore. I’m good at acting but I’m at the end of my rope. The saddest thing is I know it’s gonna destroy her. But I also know I’m the long run that not telling her and keeping going will hurt her even worse. I feel horrible.

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Tinywhisper11 April 26th

@MetalEnthusiast 😥 breakups are never easy. But you gotta just tell her, the quicker the better for both your sakes. I understand how hard it must be though. I hope it goes as well as it can for you ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ always here for you ❤ your doing the right thing ❤

toughTiger6481 April 26th

@MetalEnthusiast

You are correct in the long run you have not only held yourself to pretending but you did not do her any favors either.  the longer it goes the more hurt it will inflict if she knows you were just going along pretending you have feelings. 

Waiting until you are at the end of your rope is dangerously close to blurting it out and causing real hurt do yourself and her a favor and let go.