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I just felt I've hurted my friends

Sonicmario2002 June 23rd, 2023

When I posted on social media as usual yesterday, I've got my hopes too high as i was expecting shares and likes, but my post flopped because it doesn't appeal to them, and then I was commenting repeatedly expecting them to like back because I thought my replies are not sending properly and it's frustrating, now I'm really stressed about it and I just wanna cry because of my failures and my hurting of those who I cared for

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MeaningfulSilence June 23rd, 2023

@Sonicmario2002

Hi there Sonicmario2002, sorry for the frustration you are experiencing, I can see how you felt bad when your communication with people you feel close to, went wrong.

You said they are people you cared for so I wonder if this is the first time your text isn't welcomed ?

Is it possible that it's just one incident and that it doesn't imply they don't care for you?

Wishing you a good weekend and please feel free to update us in the forum πŸ’™


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Sonicmario2002 OP June 23rd, 2023

It probably is for both, and thank you for understanding, I guess it really sucks for me to imply that πŸ˜”

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MeaningfulSilence June 23rd, 2023

@Sonicmario2002

hey it's okay! It's perfectly fine to have emotions and to react to things, important is that you don't lose the view on the big picture! We can feel offendend or sad, frustrated or bad for someone's behavior/reaction but we can also overcome the negative and stay solid in the friendship if it's worth it !

You have the right to share how you feel and it doesn't have to be seen as right or wrong but accepted because it's part of you and you are not a robot, so it's welcome to see that you have emotions!

What counts for me is that you can feel better soon and that you can build good relationship in life, that's what i wish you πŸ’™

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Sonicmario2002 OP June 23rd, 2023

I will keep this to heart, thank you so very much 🀧😊

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MeaningfulSilence June 23rd, 2023

@Sonicmario2002

You are welcome!! 😊


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calmMango9611 May 16th

@Sonicmario2002 Post here at 7cups, my friend. This community is amazing. I enjoy reading your posts. I really do, my friend.

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Sonicmario2002 OP May 16th

Okay, I will, thank you again 😊

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