Suu & Bunny 💗
Hey @suu1309 ⊂(◉‿◉)つ ❤️!!
I'm making this post to stay in touch with you. While I may not be very active in the teen community room due to studies and other responsibilities, if you ever need me, suggestions on anything, or simply want to talk, you can mention me anytime on this post. I'm here whenever you need. I'm glad to have you as a friend. 💗
@reliablebunny23 this is so sweet of you bunny , i'll too be occupied by studies and stuff , but i don't wanna lose touch with you , will keep you updated always . And i wanna say to you too , that you can tell me if you're bothered or something's up , I'll be there ❤️
@suu1309
Thank you so much, Suu 💗 ✨
⊂(・▽・⊂) *sending virtual hug, if okay*❤️💙🖤
@reliablebunny23 love love <3
Bunny are you there ? I wanna ask something ! @reliablebunny
@reliablebunny23
@suu1309
Heyyy hey, yes, I'm here, what's up..
@reliablebunny23See bunny i have a male best friend who i love , but unfortunately it's one sided, he knows i love him but he's like I love you but not in a romantic way and that he doesn't want me to go away , so we have been friends still . It's been 6 months since I confessed my feelings but now he isn't available for me , he's always like I'm busy and have got other works but since 4 months we haven't talked like earlier when we used to talk for hours , I am not sure if he's really busy or he is ignoring me . I am confused if I should continue waiting for him or let him go , but I just , I just love him so much I can't muster up that courage to let him go . Pls tell me what should I do , continue waiting or let him go , it's tough to stay just friends with him
@suu1309
Heyy hey suu!
I really relate to you and I understand what you're going through, & I'm here for you.🫂 See, I'd suggest you to distance yourself from him. There's no use in continuing to wait for him, as you have already confessed your feelings to him & he doesn't have the same feelings. He might be busy or ignoring you, whichever way, you are suffering because of this, so it is really important to maintain a distance from him.. Keep yourself occupied with studies or anything that is important to you. Spend time doing things you love, your hobbies, it can be anything, dance, drawing, sports, etc. whatever you truly like. Watch some good movies, get new friends, talk to them, you must be having some things you want to achieve in life, Use this as an opportunity to work on them. The main point here is to keep yourself " busy ", so that, you don't think much about him, and it will get easier for you to deattach yourself from him. And the most important thing, don't take his ignorance & him not having the same feelings towards you personally. You deserve and you will get someone who loves you a lot in the future!
@reliablebunny23 i know bunny, and I'll work upon that but you know na , its just , it's just so tough for me , i mean he is very caring and whenever I said that I'm not feeling good or some problem he always spares out time and makes me feel good , i kinda am confused , the thing is he's going to college next month so he's occupied with that stuff, making him less available to chat freely . His reply to me was "i love you but I don't know what relationship we have , but it's just that i love you so much and you are one of the most important for me " how do I stop melting to these bunny
@suu1309
I totally get you, suu..
If you think he's genuinely busy & not ignoring you, & he cares that much, then you can give him a chance & still be in contact with him, considering him a friend.
He said that he loves you but he doesn't know what relationship he has with you. This means he isn't sure about what he wants or maybe he's just keeping you in between this.
If you feel like you can ask him again in a more clear way by telling him that you're stuck in this and ask him if he wants to stay friends with you or if he wants to be in a relationship,
And If he doesn't say anything clearly, then you should seriously focus on other things and your life.
I know you love him & it's hard for you to let him go. But loving someone who's not loving you back/ someone not being clear & sure about their feelings, is just hurting yourself..
Keeping yourself busy will make it easy for you to stay distracted and not think about him.
hey bunny @reliablebunny23 , it's been a while na , how's life going for you ?? sorry i couldn't be much active lately
@suu1309
Heyy heyyy suu! Everything's going ok for me. Just trying to focus on studies.
How about you? How are your studies & other things going? Anything new happening?❤️
@reliablebunny23 hi bunny , how are you? bunny im really stuck , the boy I love one sidedly told me that he loves me a lot but it's not romantically , just tell me dude what does it mean to love someone a lot but not romantically ? Apart from sexual interaction what is the other thing that differentiates platonic and romantic love ? What does he mean when he said he loves me a lot but not that way ? What is that way
@suu1309
Hey Suu❤️, I'm okay, how're you?
I'm sorry you're feeling stuck, that sounds really tough.
When someone says they love you a lot but not romantically, it usually means they care deeply about you, but they don’t have romantic or physical attraction towards you.
Romantic love involves feelings of desire and longing for a partner in a way that goes beyond just friendship—there’s a spark that makes you want to be together as a couple.
Platonic love, on the other hand, is about deep affection and connection without those romantic feelings. It’s the love you feel for a close friend where you want the best for them, enjoy spending time together, and care for them deeply, but you don’t see them as a romantic partner.
When he says he loves you but 'not that way,' he’s likely saying he values your relationship as something very special but doesn’t feel the romantic connection that would make you more than friends.
It’s hard to hear, but it’s important to remember that the love he has for you is still meaningful and real—it’s just not what you hoped for.
@reliablebunny23 is there a chance that if I keep hoping, if I keep making the efforts maybe one day things will change ?
@reliablebunny23 he always says that you're my priority but I know that one day things will change , he'll be in some sort of serious relationship with some other girl and I won't remain his first priority then. I'm saying right na ? And to even think about this , that im not going to be that important to him as he is to me sucks
@suu1309
Suu, I completely understand how hard this is, and I wish I could tell you things will change. But if he has already told you he doesn’t feel that way, it’s unlikely that his feelings will shift over time.
I know it’s painful to think about, but holding onto hope might lead to more hurt in the future, especially if he gets into a serious relationship with someone else.
It's okay to value the connection you have with him, but you also need to take care of your heart. You should prioritize your own well-being.
You deserve someone who loves you the way you love them, without any reservations. Try to focus on what you truly deserve in a relationship.
I’m here for you, no matter what. ❤️
@reliablebunny23 what should I do then bunny ? Keep staying friends or let go
@suu1309
Suu, it's really up to how you feel. If staying friends is something you think you can handle without it hurting you more, then maybe it’s worth trying to maintain that connection. But if being around him is too painful and keeps you from moving forward, it might be better to step back and focus on yourself.
Sometimes, letting go isn’t about losing someone—it’s about giving yourself the space to heal and open up to new possibilities. Trust your instincts, and do what’s best for your well-being. No matter what you choose, I’ll always be here for you. ❤️
@reliablebunny23 heyy hi bunny !! how are you doing. i hope you're in good health <3
yaar you know what , in my whole life i have been an expressive person , i always let out my gratitude for my loved ones and i always tell them that i love them , i write them paragraphs and poems expressing my love , i do all sorts of efforts . but nobody has ever done that for me , im not saying they don't love me , they do, i am very important to them but they just don't make me feel special the way i want to.
nobody ever wrote something for me , nobody just called me saying they were thinking about me , nobody ever expressed their love for me just apne aap se , like if I say then they do say that they love me too but never did that by themselves , nobody ever said to me they are proud of me just apne aap se and i feel like do I even have a worth in their life , they aren't wrong but I wish they loved me the way i want ?
And i feel ki by thinking of all this im being selfish , that they have their way of loving and maybe I'm not able to acknowledge that ? But i wish yaar , they did those small things for me too .
You know I've been getting these thoughts and my best friend noticed and she asked me what happened. Shall i tell her all i feel or will i be acting immature and selfish if I do so
@suu1309
Hiii suuuuuu!!! ❤️ I'm okay, how's you??
I'm super happy to see your text..
I'm sorry to hear that no one has ever expressed their love to you. It is really tough. I know how it feels. And it's not being selfish to get wanted to be loved the way you want. We all deserve it. Everybody wants and deserve to feel special. There should be atleast someone who should make us feel like we are someone special in their life. We all need & deserve to get some appreciation by someone.
These small things don't take much effort, they just need to be done with pure love, and can make one feel really special & good. & You deserve it, suu.
I know no one has ever said this to you, but I am really proud of you, for reaching out for support on cups, and for everything you've done in your life. You've come so far, and you're doing super amazing!
You deserve being loved the way you want, And I really hope you get people who love you how you want.
You're worth a lot and you deserve a lot of love & efforts.
*Sending you big warm hugs* ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
im good ❤️
i just feel ki maybe they have another love language and asking them to love me the way i want , do small efforts for me would be wrong of me
@suu1309
Um, I understand how u feel, but I don't think it would be wrong of you if you tell them how you feel, you can tell them how you feel instead of telling them to do efforts for you, if they care they would understand and do that at their own. 💗
yeah sure bunny, I'll surely talk it out today 🎀🫰🏻
And I don't think you would sound immature if you tell your friend about all this. If you feel comfortable, you can tell them. ❤️
@reliablebunny23 hii bunny ! how you doing dearie? i read your forum posts and just wanna let you know that you are a fighter, you are probably one of the most mature souls I've ever seen, and you deserve all the love in the world cause you're a gem of a person.
umm like always I wanted to ask you something bud. you remember my best friend who i love but he didn't clear anything to me, well that's not the case rn , we are still best friends but he's seemed to have got so busy that he's been unable to converse with me and this is for few months, and being a human his seemed to look like ignorance made me confront him.
the thing is yesterday he sent me a long message where he told me everything, how his life has become so monotonous with college and then the job he's doing , and he seemed to have lost connections with all his close ones, he said he didn't want this and it sucks for him to be what he has become . Bunny if you have watched tamasha , i can make you understand that way ki he has become the ved from tamasha. and i understand all he told me but i don't know what should I tell him , because he has changed and i and every one of his close ones want the old him back . Bunny what should I say to him bud ?
I don't want him to get used to this monotonity , i want him to live his life , i want him to prioritise people like he used to earlier but it's just so tough because he says he doesn't have any option
@suu1309 Hi suu. Thank you so much. You're really very sweet & kind. Honestly, I don't like this maturity. I haven't been like this since childhood. I was a happy bubbly & jolly person who was immature but super happy. But something changed me. I am all changed now. I'm never happy & immature like before, & I don't like being mature. I badly want my old self back. If you read all my posts, you might have seen the post in which I shared my story. Also, I think I'm not that mature about a few things, I hadn't been mature when I needed to, if I had been a little mature before then I wouldn't have changed this much. I'm immature when it comes to me,..
for others, yes i try to be there, but for myself I'm never there, I don't know how to solve my problems.
( I'm sorry for venting, It was just too much for me, and I was thinking about all this while reading the post and I don't know why but I just wrote it down, it was one of the moments I was able to understand and express what I felt that's why,
you don't have to reply to it if it feels bothersome. ❤️ )
It is great to see such friendship it's really good that you appreciate your friend I would like to connect with this user like I had some concern about or you can say some comment about their about section in their profile have a great day and in case you don't see me good morning good afternoon and good evening
@Healingride hey, thank you
I'm sorry I didn't understand, do you want to connect with my friend or with me?
Actually the thing is I wanted to connect with your friend because I had read her bio but it's fine I can connect with you to let me just see you bio if I like something or if I dislikes something it will be my pleasure to get connected and I'm really sorry for being bold hope you understand Radhe Radhe
@Healingride It's completely alright. ❤️
You can ask her if she wants to connect. (✿^‿^)
Sorry I am unable to tag you I am not sure what's the issue with they have but I would like to connect to you if it's possible
Okay I just went through your profile and my God such a long about section I am not sure but can we connect
@Healingride We can (:
How?
@Healingride I don't see an option to pm you on your profile. Can you see an option to pm me on my profile?
No I don't see it either or I was not asking you I was telling please invading your inbox as you had already permitted me to text you
@Healingride I am sorry, I did not understand.
No I am not getting the option of texting you
I would just turn my account as online and you can just search for listeners in the search listeners option if you find me and get the option of text please do
Are you there. is it fine
Can we and how?
