Lost respect and favour dilemma
My parents had a very nasty fight with me, that too for a very very small reason and huge misunderstanding. During the argument they started hurting themselves. Which was very traumatizing for me. and I've lost all respect for them now. Now, they are asking for a favor regarding some work. I'm not sure what to do.
@navySea3717
Ok so you are saying during some blowout argument they did self-harm whilst you watched?
And now they wish to pretend it never happened????
Ok honestly I was married to an extremely crazy messed up dude. He cut himself...and never while I was sitting watching.
Generally that is grounds call an ambulance they can chill in a psych ward over that.
What they did was EXTREMELY abusive.
I suggest consider yourself abused by this and respond accordingly!!
@navySea3717
Also big fights over small reasons a hallmark of abuse.
SCENARIO
Your dad asks you to pick him up ciggies of a certain type. You do but get short not long.
Your dad then screams hollers and throws the ciggies at you. Puts his fist in a wall in the process.
This is abuse!!