I can solve my problems
emotionalEast2654
14 hours ago
opening up to this sweet people while telling them my problems I realize that I can solve it by just thinking positive.
Tinywhisper11
14 hours ago
determinedSea4370
13 hours ago
@emotionalEast2654
Having a positive outlook can definitely help you escape negative unrealistic thought patterns! But, I wouldn't discredit thinking neutrally (like with CBT)- or even thinking negatively, actually. Sometimes it is good to approach things from a balanced perspective and sometimes negative thoughts are justified- the key to true mental balance is being able to take a step back and recognize what the reality is. I'm pretty wary of toxic positivity- like, it's okay if bad things are just bad- it's just about being able to ride your emotional wave properly.