I’m scared of my new job

@drzombienoodles I have found that all new jobs come with a learning curve. You are more than capable of doing well at this job. For me it usually takes about six months before I fully settle in, but every week brings a little more comfort. And don’t forget, you have us. Tell us how it’s going, ask our opinions, share some funny office stories. We’ll keep you going for only 10% of your take home pay…just kidding we’ll do it for free. 😂

@drzombienoodles

Hello. I am sorry to hear about the difficult emotions you are going through. I think there is nothing wrong to feel like that on a new job, especially when it is your first "real" job.

Speaking from my experience, whether it is about a new work, or a new relationship, I call it a "new car effect". When you started something, and it looks to be too perfect, you may have doubts if this is really for you. But after a while you may see that nothing in this world is perfect - but it still can be the right fit for you.

Usually, when companies employ a new person, they really need someone to make the job done. And they oftentimes do not think about firing that person without a good reason. Like disrespecting the basic organisational rules (working hours, punctuality etc), coming to work drunk, leaving the door to the ladies' room wide open, engaging in a fist fight with a co-worker - yeah, I saw people who lost their jobs because of such extreme things they did.

But normally I think everybody needs some time to get a proper training. It's natural to ask many questions - they show the other person that you really want to get the things right. Everybody can make mistakes, no matter the experience. Also, I believe it is crucial to make friends with some people, and have an experienced person to rely on. They can make your feel more welcome and less confused. Everything is gonna be fine. Just calmly and slowly...

All the best in your new job! 😊 

@drzombienoodles

The reality is no one knows the job from day one .... unless perhaps a returning employee.

Every place has training and basic ways they do things as they want them done.  Depending on the job it may take a while before you feel very comfortable in it and in that time they may add things or change things you just learned as well.    Most are looking for someone they think will grow into the role not expected to do it first day.   

Companies depending on the complexity may have a time frame in mind as much as a year sometimes ... and AFTER that time they expect less questions and more ability of you to do the job.... 

Hi! Today was the day, I hope it went well. Hopefully you have a good team and I truly feel that having support is one of the key things to help a person be successful on the job. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with not knowing how to do anything, that’s the whole point of your training and grace. So you can understand what you need to do. Please don’t be afraid to ask questions, sometimes again and again until you understand what you need to do. Find out who your direct supervisor is and hopefully you can have a good relationship with them and ask any questions you need. It’s OK to feel nervous and maybe a little bit of imposter syndrome , but remember : you got this job! They hired you, they want you, and I bet you actually are super qualified for it just by being who you are. Don’t be nervous, walk in confidence, ask questions and if it doesn’t work out, that’s also OK too just don’t stress and do your best.

I’ve had imposter syndrome ALL the time with each job. Worst case scenario, you can always find another job. Also, just try your best. There’s only so much we can control. We can’t control life, but we can control how we react to it. Best of luck!