Hello
Hello. I am new here. I am so feeling blessed I don't have any issue with my health like anxiety or other emotional problems. You may ask why am I here if I have no any mental problems? I want to help as much as people from suicide. I have huge empathy how many people took their soul because they couldn't talk freely about their problem to their family and closes friends, they didn't want judgment. Well to be honest I learned from with what had happened with my very close relative. There were such a horrible years for whole family. She looked really fine, she was multi tasking, beautiful, I can say her parents is rich they can by things they want without worrying anything, everything looked okay with her. BUT one evening we found her mouth was bleeding , she sat on bed was biting her tounge. Shortly, I learned from her. She was sent to study far from family, she felt pushed to join various completions at school, she her parents pushed her too much, and she had no one to share her mind like she felt so lonely among her siblings and friends. Well I came to be her listener and motivator. Thank to God she is really find now. So many suicidal issues now are happening in my country, just because they felt so lonely. Always hearth breaking when I heard or read kind of news. I am offering my emphatic ears to help. I found it will be great if I can help strangers, we don't know each other but they can talk about anything without worrying being judged or without worrying if their secret will come up to the world.
@ItisNita
Hey hey Nita, it's soooo thoughtful of you to want to share your empathetic gifts and caring gestures with the people who need a compassionate and supportive person to talk to.💗
And yusss, a lot of people do. Your support and willingness to listen to them and support them is greatly appreciated.
Do you know we have listener and member accounts here?
Currently you're logged in via a member account which is a support seeking account-type. (Yes, members can too and do support fellow members via forums or group chats)
However, for the more "want to mainly focus on listening and supporting others and not for personal emotional support seeking" way via personal chats here (for personal chats, one needs to be a listener and other a member account), and if you'd like to listen to people and use active listening skills to provide support to them, you can become a listener here: https://www.7cups.com/listener/CreateAccount.php. This way you'd also become a part of the listeners community, who can guide you and support you in your listener role, and can access various resources and tools for the same, accessible on a listener-only account.
Again, thank you for being so willing and enthusiastic about making a change and becoming a hope for more people in need of it.💗
Wow such a wonderful news, thank you for your information. It will be great if I have chance to be a listener helping others at least to make them feel good, to make them realize that they are loved and not alone. So I knew this guy, a college student had been suffering of anxiety for two years (before he jumped from his apartment window), like 3 days before his death he contacted a therapist sending him a text asking for a possibility if he could pay lower consultation fee, the therapist responded he would charge him nothing but need to wait for days because the therapist appointment was full. It's really making me sad, and wondered if the student was be able to talk to someone he trust at the time, he might not take his life. I was imagining what he had been doing like cried loud, or going crazy before he finally decided to jump :( This is one of lots of reasons why I want to listen to them at least I wish...I can make them feel their life is precious.
