Imagining a situation never occurred. Accepting your looks?

@Ynwa2014 dear, all human beings are ugly compared to rabbits.

i mean like you're fretting over being between a 1 (you currently) vs a 1 (your ideal self) out of the 10 that is this majestic creature.

@Ynwa2014

Hello Ynwa, first of all, I'm glad you took the time to write your story and ask for help (even if they may be from strangers like me).

I think I can kind of empathise with and understand how you feel, at least regarding looks and how it causes low self esteem.

Anyways I just wanted to say that the way you feel is perfectly fine.
Firstly you don't have to force yourself to change the way you percieve yourself. If you don't like the way you look, ok. It is, as it is. The thing is, being self conscious about your looks is understandable, right? Sure, it is a "superficial" problem, but is it really? When people first see you or first meet you, and they don't actually "know" you, they would judge you by the way you look, no? So it's fine to be worried about this. (Now I'm not saying panic about it. I'm just saying, don't give yourself a hard time for being upset about it because it's perfectly understandable.)

Secondly, could you not find another dentist and describe to them that you would like to change your faceshape? Or maybe even a plastic surgeon? If a dentist can change your face shape in an undesirable manner, they could surely do it in a desirable manner?
Now I'm not advocating plastic surgery or any medical procedure, but I'm just saying that, if the way you look bothers you so much, that is an option you could consider.

Thirdly, there are some people who looked ugly as poop and then turned into a very attractive person later on in their life.
Look at the guy who played Neville in Harry Potter. He was the saddest looking kid in the franchise, and now he grew up to be the most handsome looking guy out of all of the actors.
And this is George Clooney when he was young. He looks like a pedophile in that photo, yet now he is known as one of the most sexiest men alive.
So will you actually look the way you do forever? Probably not.
Who knows, maybe your lower half of your face would look super awesome with all it's "flaws" when you age, right?

If you don't accept yourself, you don't have to. There really is no need. Just let yourself be.
Eventually when you get to a time when you can accept yourself, then you naturally will. There's no rush.

I'll say this, if you can accept yourself if you were naturally beautiful/ugly, what stops you from accepting your current looks (which I'm sure isn't ugly) that resulted from your life circumstances, which by the way, are as uncontrollable as your DNA?