hello, it's me again...with anxiety.

I'm not sure if everyone here knows my story... i'm gonna be quick this time and i only share the current situation:

The current situation with my partner's family is getting worse. I'm trying to give her my support, but my partner is getting angry again, she's tired to take full care of her mother. Her family is awful, they didn't give her any support. They make my partner and mother feel as if living in their home was an act of piety and not a right.

I try to talk to my girlfriend to make her feel better, but the words don't come to my mind. I know that saying: "keep calm, be patient" does not help at all . The deterioration of her mother is constant( she has Cancer and she has a colostomy and her kidneys are failing she's losing her temper and faith too) .
In my country, health services are not very good and that complicates the situation of my girlfriend's mother.

What should i do? my gilfriend doesn't want to receive therapy, she feels so disappointed of her family ,she doesn't allow me to help her even to clean her house, she says her family would criticize her.

I'm afraid that she will discharge that anger with me again.
I dk what to say to her... I think that even my jokes or my attempts to make her laugh will not work this time ... well, I have never believed that they work.

U_______U

How can you give hope to someone who has lost faith?