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modestWriter18 February 25th, 2019

I turn 28 this July. I am still a virgin, never kissed and it

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Kace February 25th, 2019

@modestWriter18

There is someone for everyone, we may retort we are too old, too inexperienced, I have literally heard it all. But if you can create the right bond with a person, those concerns fly out the window. It;s how you can make the woman feel, do you keep her laughing and having lots of fun, that is part of the ingredients that women find especially attractive.

Kace February 25th, 2019

@modestWriter18

There is someone for everyone, we may retort we are too old, too inexperienced, I have literally heard it all. But if you can create the right bond with a person, those concerns fly out the window. It;s how you can make the woman feel, do you keep her laughing and having lots of fun, that is part of the ingredients that women find especially attractive.

Ariella23 February 25th, 2019

@modestWriter18 You don't need to worry about all that. You might think it's long, but you have a whole life ahead of you. You don't need to be defined by a love interest, and I believe that love is meant for all of us, even if it takes a while.

modestWriter18 OP March 4th, 2019

How can I grow a thicker skin? When I read or hear insults along the lines of "stupid virgin" I feel like that's how women will see me.

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Ariella23 March 6th, 2019

@modestWriter18 Not all women will see you that way. Personally, I respect the fact that you don't go throwing yourself at people just for romance. The thing is, society is brutal. There's no changing that. Over time, you will learn to let go of little things like that. Sometimes you just need support of people who could care less about whether or not your a virgin. And just like love, it may take time. But don't be downgraded because of that. heart

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modestWriter18 OP March 11th, 2019

I appreciate everyones input so far. The worst part about all this is the slightly childish sense that Im a decade behind most people. I feel a need to make up for lost time.