Relationship anxiety
In October i went away to visit family and my boyfriend said he was going to do a cosplay photoshoot for a friend at her place. I trusted him going there even though I was away. Now I've done photoshoots before with other photographers prior to being with him but i hadnt done any shoots with anyone but him since we started dating since he expresed an issue to a lingerie shoot I did prior to our relationship. The shoot he did ended up being lingerie cosplay and then part topless. Which he never told me and I found out on accident a month later. It wouldnt have been as bad if he told me.. But we fought it about it already however it still bothers me. Any advice?
@AnastasiaGrimwalker
Communication is always helpful when it's appropriate. Your betrothed did a photo shoot that you would have objected to, and you discussed it, but it turned into an argument. Maybe it's good to have had the discussion because your fiance now understands that it's not acceptable to have that kind of event. Relationships are often built on mistakes, understanding, and trust. You can't change the past, but you know that the expectation is there for this to not happen again in the future.
Also ... by their very nature as primarily emotionally based and centered relationships, romantic relationships have a tendency to be fraught with drama and instability.
When that happens, it is important to step back and look at the problem logically, then communicate the problem fully and logically with your partner. Write it all down if you have to, because that helps to process the problem in a logical way.
I hope this helps! 🙂 I know the original post is from some time ago but I hope you and anyone else in this situation will find this helpful! 👍
@AnastasiaGrimwalker Whether it’s lingerie, fashion, or portrait photography, feeling good in what you wear plays a huge role in how the photos turn out. That’s why knowing how to dress for photoshoot can make such a difference. The right outfit isn’t just about aesthetics—it helps set the tone, boost confidence, and ensure you feel like your best self in front of the camera!