Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Not so much anxious as confused

So. I've been searching up all the different LGBTQ+ things, and I found a little thing called lithromatic.

I... think I'm lithromntic? But I don't know? and I'm so confused right now.

- i think romantic relationships are more about strong friendships with someone that you're also sexually attracted to you

- i am sexually attracted to people

- i feel kinda weird thinking about doing things like kissing (i've never kissed before)

- i'm fine with hugs, cuddles, pecking on the cheeks, small things.

But, I don't know. Am I just a very shy straight person? (I would consider myself very very very shy) Am I lithromantic?

2
AquaNavySky July 20th, 2019

@warmheartedClementine5165 I think it's ok to not be completely sure of your romantic orientation right now. To be honest I am currently questioning whether I might be somewhere on the asexual spectrum and while that is not exactly the same I can relate to some of the confusion you seem to be feeling. So I just wanted to reassure you that it's ok not to know for now. However, if you do truly feel the term lithromantic fits you then that's great that you have discovered something about yourself that feels right but if you are unsure or you realise that maybe the term isn't quite right for you then that's ok too. Sometimes it might just take a little while to figure it out. :)

1 reply
dsingla July 20th, 2019

@AquaNavySky h

load more