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@reliableCake732 hi sweetie ❤ sorry your having a hard time in school🙁 it could be signs of learning difficulties, maybe you could talk to your parents to see a doctor about it. But that being said, we are not in a race, all you can do is your best, and that's good enough ❤ I'm sure you'll discover your talent soon enough, I'm the meantime be kind to yourself ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

@reliableCake732

Hello reliableCake,

The inner critic, the voice inside of you that tells you that you are not good enough and that you are week, is strongest when we allow it grow without seeing that we all have our strengths and weaknesses. You mention that you struggle with assignments and physical activities, but although these details may seem overwhelmingly embarrassing or like they say something bad about you, another way to think about it is that it’s just a sign that you might have hidden strengths elsewhere or that you have a lot of room to grow, but it doesn’t mean you will always struggle with the same things. I hope you also give yourself some self-compassion. I know you’re worried that you might have learning difficulties or other difficulties. We cannot diagnose, as we are not professionals, but I hope you recognize that so many people share the same insecurities and that you’re not a failure because you face such difficulties. You’re human, and I trust that you have inner strengths, such as being willing to reach out for support on here. That takes courage, and that is something to be proud of:

@reliableCake732 I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I’m so proud of you for reaching out and sharing what’s been going on. It sounds like you're carrying a lot of weight right now, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. You're not alone in this, even though it might feel that way sometimes.

First of all, I want you to know that what you're experiencing doesn't mean you don't have value or potential. You might be feeling slower or more anxious compared to others, but that doesn’t define who you are. Everyone has strengths, even if they’re not always visible right away. And struggling with anxiety, physical activities, or even schoolwork is not a sign of failure - it’s just something you’re working through, and it’s okay to need help. It’s also really important to remember that being "good" at something looks different for everyone. You might not feel strong in one area now, but that doesn’t mean you won’t find something that you enjoy or are talented at in the future. Growth takes time, and it’s normal to feel unsure at your age as you’re figuring out who you are and what you want to pursue.

In terms of your concerns about learning disabilities, it might help to talk to a trusted adult - like a parent, teacher, or counselor who can help guide you to a professional who can provide more answers. Learning disabilities are more common than you might think, and with the right support, people with learning differences can still thrive.

As for the panic and anxiety you're feeling, that’s something worth addressing too. Talking to a therapist or counselor can help you better understand what’s happening and how to manage those feelings, whether they’re linked to stress, anxiety, or something else.

Remember, just because you're struggling right now doesn’t mean you’ll always feel this way. You are worthy, you are enough, and there’s nothing wrong with asking for support. You don’t have to carry everything by yourself.

I'm so sorry you're feeling that way. Don't worry, you probably won't always be like this, I can't give you any advice like relax or be happy because it's not that easy, but you have my support. The fact that they hate you for it says a lot about them.

It's a suggestion, But if relaxation exercises do not help, exercise such as going for a walk would help♡♡

And valerian pills have helped me a lot with anxiety. You could try it. it's a plant that is completely natural but be careful if you are allergic or something,

You can always ask your parents for help, you're not alone

@reliableCake732 I'm sorry that you're feeling like this. I know that it's not easy and it's very overwhelming for you. I'm sure that all of this will pass and it's okay to feel like that sometimes. In that age, we question ourselves a lot.  Important thing is to be kind to yourself and to remember that it's okay to have weakness and make mistakes. We often learn from them, for our whole life. I believe that you have lot of talent and strength too, you can get through this. Take care❤️

@reliableCake732

Hi friend. I know it's been a long time, but I'd like to support you now. You wrote a very sad story and I'm sorry that such things happen to you. People should be kinder and accept others, but they can't. Especially children. They are very cruel and hate everyone who is different from them. I often encountered similar stories and I also couldn't do much. I had to endure and it was often difficult. But even if it seems to you that you have nothing and can't do anything - it's not so. You are strong and you definitely must have talents and hobbies. Great guitarists cannot be great photographers, and great football players often don't understand biology. You will definitely find something of your own, and maybe you already have! I believe in you

I get how it must have been hard for you, feeling like you don't measure up to others. We always compare ourselves to others, but the reality is we often compare with others the things they have but we don't, or the things that they can do better than us. We often forget about the things that we might be able to do better than others. You don't have to pay attention to the hate others give you. Instead, focus your energy on finding what you can do well that's unique to you. I know that feels hard, but once you learn to overcome it, you will find yourself looking back and feeling proud of yourself. It's most likely not a learning disability, but rather simply that you're still in the process of trying to find what you love and are good at :)