I don't know why
I am 13 years old,and rn I am completely clueless.I am weaker than most of the people of my class.I could not complete my small assignment even after two months!! I am so slow . I am very bad in physical activities like small exercises and stuffs,I am neither good in studies.I mess up every little things .I think I don't have any talent.I get anxiety and pamic attacks easily.I don't know why this is happening:(
People hates me for this.Can y'all please help me to find out why all this things are happening and how to cure it? 💔
Is it any sign of any kind of learning disabilities?
It's my heartfelt request to you 🌷💌
Plz support me :(
@reliableCake732 hi sweetie ❤ sorry your having a hard time in school🙁 it could be signs of learning difficulties, maybe you could talk to your parents to see a doctor about it. But that being said, we are not in a race, all you can do is your best, and that's good enough ❤ I'm sure you'll discover your talent soon enough, I'm the meantime be kind to yourself ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
@Tinywhisper11 Thank you so much for the kind words and support 💌🌷
But unfortunately I do not have the luck to consult a doctor.But I am pretty sure I require therapy rn.My dad lives in another place for job and my mom is no more.I live with my toxic relatives who are alcoholic.They have abused me physically, mentally and verbally.I don't have real friends.They considers me as 'time pass'.I think I should try talking to my grandparents,my parents,and my sister.About all the abused and my feelings.❤️🩹
@reliableCake732
Hello reliableCake,
The inner critic, the voice inside of you that tells you that you are not good enough and that you are week, is strongest when we allow it grow without seeing that we all have our strengths and weaknesses. You mention that you struggle with assignments and physical activities, but although these details may seem overwhelmingly embarrassing or like they say something bad about you, another way to think about it is that it’s just a sign that you might have hidden strengths elsewhere or that you have a lot of room to grow, but it doesn’t mean you will always struggle with the same things. I hope you also give yourself some self-compassion. I know you’re worried that you might have learning difficulties or other difficulties. We cannot diagnose, as we are not professionals, but I hope you recognize that so many people share the same insecurities and that you’re not a failure because you face such difficulties. You’re human, and I trust that you have inner strengths, such as being willing to reach out for support on here. That takes courage, and that is something to be proud of:
@TheLightofKintsugi Thank you so much for support 🌷❤️
But I can't take this verbal and Physical abuse anymore ❤️🩹
I’m sorry to hear that you’re facing verbal and physical abuse over this. It’s never okay for someone to hurt you for anything, especially for not being “enough”. You deserve people who love you for who you are—not for what you’re aren’t.
@TheLightofKintsugi yeah .. but there's no one ❤️🩹
@reliableCake732
Oh, this sounds really challenging dear, and seems people often misunderstand you too
Though let's acknowledge you can communicate well, be able to look at the situation and seek out solution and support, Im sending you warmth from my heart.
I feel so much love for you.
The abuse is something no one should tolerate, I hope there must be a way out for you from this situation, I wouldn't worry about your learning difficulties, you understand a lot.
Maybe those around you pressure you to do better on that regard, sorry, but we are all different.
Education mostly fails out human nature in a lot of places (what country you in?,)
But yeah if you can connect with your talents and gifts that's good, though you may be able to do that when you feel safe.
Sounds like you may be having to put up with the situation for a bit more
May universe send you the right loving caring people empowered to help you,🙏 in the meantime take care sweetie and you do, keep love alive, do you have a pet?
If you want to reach out and talk, I'm here for you, I live in Mexico, have fluent English, I will try to help you the best I can, I'm compromised at the moment with my health but have connections in loving community, maybe there is a way
+526243291947 WhatsApp
Take care
