Fear of driving. Help!
Hello. I don't know how to overcome this and I feel so alone :(
I got into a car accident 8 years ago and haven't driven since. I can drive to my near Target which is about 2 miles from home (5min). Also, I carpool with my husband to got to work, and my friends pick me up to hang out. So I never really cared about trying to drive again. Until today. I just got an email for an opportunity to go on a business trip to another state...alone. Which means I will have to get a rental for transporatation. I have to tell my boss that I don't drive, and I'm terrified I will lose out on a great job opportunity if I don't go on this business trip. I can take a cab or Uber, which I usually do, but I don't want it to be an issue.
I'm so scared to drive. I don't want to drive...EVER. But at the same time I want to be free. I'm scared I'm going to hurt someone (both outiside/inside the car). I'm also afraid of getting into an accident again and losing my car again. No car = can't get to work = lose my job. I also get panic attacks if I can't find parking and I have to drive around and around. I also don't want to drive to places I've never been before becaue I'm scared I get lost. I'm freaking 32 years old and can't freakin drive. It's so frustrating. I've been a burden on my husband and I feel so guilty.
What should a tell my boss and how can I overcome my fear of driving?
@avocadoholic22
Many driving schools offer classes after a license. Many people go through the same as you did, or just some driving for whateaver reason. So to get to practice again they pay for extra classes (they can choose how many they want). What do you think?
If you can't afford that, then just practice on a street with a dead end, or a parking lot.
Also having someone by your side helps alot. Support is always nice.
Best of luck.