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Anxious about finances and stability

energeticFarm4649 December 12th, 2017

For two years I have had a lot of problems getting settled and getting an income. A lot of people have gotten in my way and cost my business a lot of money. I thought I had new better and more trustworthy people helping me now, but it feels like the same thing all over again. One guy is supposed to write a business plan for me, and he was supposed to get me something in November so I could secure monthly contracts to start out the year. He is 3 weeks late, even though I have worked on those relationships, and am ready to send them something so I can get the contracts. I notice in the emotional health questionnaire here, it asks ifI lash out at people, and I know I do. My patience and tolerance is so low because people have taken advantage of me, and it has cost me a lot of money. Here I am trying to get something more secure, and I feel like I fixate on things that get stuck. When one thing happens to prevent me from taking the next step as anticipated, I can't even move on and work on anything else productive. I just get stuck on the thing that isn't working and holding me back.

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Darkseed November 3rd, 2018

@energeticFarm4649

It's challenging to obtain health and financial stability. I think the mind evaluates future relationships based on past relationships, and each person that takes advantage or does something terrible is a tick mark. When so many people do something bad, there are so many tick marks that the mind things that future people will do something terrible. Not all people are bad, and the future can be better. I would recommend making your expectations very clear. If you tell the worker that the business proposal is due on a specific date, explain that it will not be accepted late, and if you can say to them, they won't get paid. Having expectations clear and in writing helps people understand that a deadline is a hard deadline.

matsukendg September 13th, 2021

Man, think about your health first. Money is temporary, so don't worry about earning them, there are many opportunities for that

piligrimmscott September 13th, 2021

I managed to overcome that situation a long time ago, especially that it was one of the most time-consuming things that I had to prevail because my previous situation did not even allow me to invest in pages like this one so I looked for different options until What could I do with some bitcoins and keep waiting for them to go up