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Tips to Cope with a Panic Attack

Jenna October 6th, 2016
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A panic attack is a sudden rush of physical symptoms — like shortness of breath, muscle spasms, and nausea — coupled with uncontrollable anxiety and sometimes a sense of impending doom. Visits to the emergency room and desperate late night phone calls to doctors often result, as do test results that often reveal nothing. If youve ever had a panic attack, you can probably empathize with the frustration and hopelessness of not knowing exactly what happened.

By educating yourself about panic attacks, you can begin to gain control of the problem. You dont have to live in fear and uncertainty any longer. Well get you started on your journey toward well-being.

Accepting a panic attack for what it is can help to lessen its effect. To start feeling in control of your anxiety, make an appointment with your doctor and get a full physical exam. This will help you focus your approach, as youll find out for certain that youre coping with panic attacks and not some other ailment. A clean bill of health can also help alleviate irrational fears of dying and doom, which can surface during a panic attack.

Also, your doctor can differentiate between occasional panic attacks and a more serious panic disorder, which may require professional treatment and possibly medication. Working with your doctor, you can also determine if you have a genetic susceptibility to panic attacks, and if your episodes are triggered in part by other conditions, such as a thyroid disorder or lactose sensitivity.

Recognize the Symptoms of a Panic Attack

Familiarizing yourself with panic attack symptoms can help you feel more in control while ones happening. Once you realize youre experiencing a panic attack and not a heart attack, allergic reaction, or some other serious ailment, you can focus on techniques for calming yourself.

Being able to recognize it for what it is will help you decide what action to take to overcome it. Although symptoms differ from person to person, and only a trained professional can provide a definite diagnosis, some common ones include:

Irregular heartbeat

Dizziness and lightheadedness

Shortness of breath

Choking sensations and nausea

Shaking and sweating

Fatigue and weakness

Chest pain and heartburn

Muscle spasms

Hot flashes or sudden chills

Tingling sensations in your extremities

A fear that youre going crazy

A fear that you might die or be seriously ill

Understanding Your Body

A panic attack is often a reaction to fear (either conscious or unconscious), and some of the strange physical reactions you experience during one are the result of your body reacting to this fear. Common catalysts of panic attacks include:

Anticipatory anxiety. You become mentally anxious over a past, traumatic event, and your body responds as if it will happen again right away. Catalysts can include photographs, conversations, or anything that triggers the badmemory.

Self-defeating visualization. You may not only picture yourself re-experiencing a traumatic event, but you may also fear losing control of a current situation and not being able to handle it. You interpret the situation as potentially dangerous, and your body secretes adrenaline to prepare for crisis.

Understanding how your body and mind work during these episodes can help you develop a healthier response to frightening situations. Although there are innumerable variations, common reactions to panic include:

Your body goes on alert. Your brain sends a message to your body to protect it against the perceived danger, and your body prepares for the pseudo-emergency. For instance, the eyes may dilate to improve vision, your heart rate quickens to circulate blood faster to vital organs, breathing increases to get more oxygen to the circulating blood, and your muscles tense in case you have to move quickly.

Your mind remains stuck on fearful thoughts. Instead of reacting to either solve the problem or remove yourself from the situation (which youd likely do in a real emergency), you get stuck on the perceived threat and remain unable to let go of the fear.

Your breathing becomes more rapid. Inhaled oxygen reacts with your cells to produce carbon dioxide, which is then exhaled. During a panic attack, breathing rates increase so your body can absorb oxygen more quickly in preparation for any necessary action. During rapid, heavy breathing (also called hyperventilation), your lungs exhale more carbon dioxide than your cells produce, causing the level of carbon dioxide in your blood and brain to fall. The results (which may include dizziness and heart palpitations) can cause some people to panic further, thereby increasing breathing even more.

Relax Your Breathing and Muscles

If you feel an attack coming on, simple breathing and relaxation techniques can help you feel more in control. But dont wait until youre having a panic attack to perfect the techniques. Practicing them twice a day for just 10 minutes at a time may make your panic attacks less frequent and easier to conquer.

Relax your breathing. Put one hand on your upper-chest, and the other over your diaphragm (where your rib cage meets your stomach).

Take in a slow, deep breath through your nose while counting to five. The hand on the chest should stay still, while the one over your diaphragm should raise with your breath. This is how you know the breath is deep enough.

When you reach the count of five, let the breath out slowly (through your nose) at the same rate. Concentrating on your hands and the counting will help focus you and calm you down. Continue these breaths until you feel relaxed.

Relax your muscles. Find a comfortable position to sit in (or lie down).

Close your eyes and begin to focus solely on your toes. Curl them under tightly for a count of five, squeezing the muscles together as hard as you can, then relax.

Next, concentrate on your feet. Contract all of their muscles tightly for a count of five, then relax.

Continue up your body, isolating each muscle group (calves, thighs, buttocks, stomach, chest, shoulders, neck, fingers, hands, and arms) all the way up to your face.

By the time you contract and relax your face muscles, you should feel much more calm.

Exercise

A panic attack can trick you into feeling fatigued, but often the opposite is true. Instead of retreating to your couch or bed, try these activities:

Walking. During a panic attack, it may seem like nothing short of an emergency room will help you. But sometimes the most basic of activities–like a walk through a quiet park, down a street you find relaxing, or anywhere that helps you take your mind off your anxiety–can be the best medicine. Light aerobic exercise also helps your body produce endorphins. And getting fresh air and sunshine can have a positive effect on your overall outlook.

Yoga and stretching. Like deep breathing, these activities can reduce muscle tension and help you regain composure. Lie flat on your back and bring one knee up to your chest. Hold it there for 20 seconds with your hands, while also breathing deeply through your nose. Repeat with the other knee.

Or, stand with your feet a little more than shoudler distance apart and your knees straight. Bend forward from the waist, touching your fingertips to the ground. Hold that pose for 10 seconds, then gently come back to a standing position (being careful not to strain your back). Repeat these stretches as necessary.

Using peripheral vision. Let your field of vision broaden until you can see from the outside corners of your eyes. Breathe deeply and let your jaw muscles relax. This exercise activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which calms your body.

Confront Your Fear

The more you understand your fear, the better youll be able to control it. Try writing in a journal before, during, and after a panic attack; record your thoughts, ailments, and worries. When youre feeling better, go back and reread the entry. This can prepare you for another attack (as youll know what to expect) and can help you look for patterns between attacks. Some other ways to understand your panic include:

Paradoxical intention. The goal of this exercise is to trigger a panic attack and stand up to it, thereby feeling in control of what frightens you. Go into the feared situation with the tools youve learned, and perhaps with a friend for support, and actually dare the attack to happen. This can help you train yourself to not be afraid of the situation, and give you an opportunity to learn from it.

Talk to a therapist. A therapist can help you get to the root(s) of the problem and devise a plan to overcome it. To find a therapist whos right for you, ask for a referral from your doctor.

Join a support group. A therapist, your doctor, or a friend may be able to recommend a support group for sufferers of panic attacks. Group meetings can give you further insight into your situation, as youll get a chance to hear how others are coping with their problems.

As frightening as it may seem at first, once you start to learn about panic and stand up to it, youll experience newfound wisdom and freedom–a great first step toward all sorts of new possibilities.

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goodPineapple5292 October 9th, 2016
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@JaceofSpades

This sometimes does help. But I'm glad I know I'm not alone. Depending on how serious my panic attacks are sometimes I use these steps to cope. But sometimes mine are so bad and last so long I have to take a pill. Dangit I hate that

XtinaSunshine July 29th, 2017
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@Jenna I love all of these. ❤️❤️❤️

XtinaSunshine July 29th, 2017
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@Jenna love all of these. ❤️❤️❤️

SafeBea August 10th, 2019
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Some thing i do which is odd, is cause a specific sense to be focused on. Hearing? Music. Touch? Shower/drip water on your skin/ice(be careful)/ feeling something with an interesting texture. Smell? Perfume. Taste? Drink/eat something you enjoy that is powerful. Sight? Tv/phone.

Its just someting that i use to calm down so i can deal with the emotions easie .

PerfectSalah September 4th, 2019
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@Jenna i wish everyone a happy life and a safe journey 🙂❤

Laura October 6th, 2016
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Jace, all of these threads are really helpful & insightful. Can we add some of this info to the resource section in the sub-community main page?

Jenna OP October 6th, 2016
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@Laura

Definitely! I don't have that ability, but I am sure someone who does can add the info.

Laura October 6th, 2016
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@JaceofSpades You should be able to now

blossombreathe October 9th, 2016
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@JaceofSpades

A really helpful thread here!! Thank you so much. laugh

Zebrasarcastic October 12th, 2016
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Very informative ,Thankyou so much

amazingGrace777 October 17th, 2016
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I need the link to this thread

Hermionee March 30th, 2017
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As someone who's suffered from panic attacks, this really is very useful. I get panic attacks more often than not about school and the pressures of doing well so these exercises will really be benefical! Thank you so much!

NothingGold April 17th, 2017
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A friend of mine just sent me one of those "What to do when you have a panic attack" videos...one of the strategies was to get excited...to flip the panic into excitement - tell yourself that you're excited by this feeling by saying "I'm excited by this feeling!" over and over again...this works because fear and excitement are similar states...it also said try to make the panic attack worse...stop fighting it and run towards it.

Has anyone ever heard of this strategy? I can understand not fighting it, but I can't imagine anything I would rather do LESS than try to make my panic attacks worse!

Another strategy was to shake your arms and legs - get the stress hormones out.

I usually take my medication, find a safe place to be and then use a meditation to help me breathe easier. Then sleep or go for a walk, depending on how I feel.

Deea097 February 10th, 2019
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@NothingGold Hello! I've recently join and while browsing around I came across your question. It sounds like steps from the DARE response, from Barry McDonagh, I've read his book and found several audios very helpful (love his accent, BTW) in high anxiety and panic situations. Deep breathing and 'I'm exited about this feeling' mantra seem to be working for me somehow, unfortunately I still have situations, usually in the evenings, where I have to take the pill for high heart rate.

PositivePixieDust July 22nd, 2017
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Thank you! This is a very helpful and informational thread!

Liz2208 July 24th, 2017
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@PositivePixieDust

Welcome! Im Lizzy and Im currently a trained listener and intern. I hope you find what you are looking for here in 7 Cups. Please feel free to message me whenever. I will usually reply within the day and if Im online, you should expect a reply straight away! I specialise in anxiety, panic attacks and loneliness mostly but you are always free to message me for other reasons!

http://www.7cups.com/15248074

coffeeaddicted21 September 4th, 2019
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@Jenna

Extremely helpful

missingtrees August 10th, 2020
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Just reading this made me feel panicky! I wish I understood why. Deep breathing helps a little. Running is usually a good idea for me, too.

JessHobson August 24th, 2020
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@Jenna love this 💚

Marisol8023 September 7th, 2023
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These are some very good tips

MariC1992 October 18th, 2023
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I can‘t read the tips, what do I have to do, to see the full list? Right now i only see the letter „A“ and nothing else 😅

proactivePlace3164 October 18th, 2023
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@Jenna I can't find the attachment 

Jenna OP October 18th, 2023
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@proactivePlace3164

Hey, there is a glitch with the forums where some are missing their original text. They're working on figuring it out.

indigoBeechwood7452 January 8th
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@Jenna

the past 3 days i have been experiencing symptoms like this but i cant seem to find the cause of why its happening. ive seen doctors and everything is fine but i get this pain in my neck, chest, and head and then i start panicking and it gets hard to breathe. i just wish i knew what was the cause of these panic attacks.

JollyRacher January 8th
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@Jenna

Been having bad panic attacks lately, and this really helped. 😁

optimisticPlace7722 July 24th, 2021
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I know what you mean