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Dealing with panic attacks by doing aboslutely nothing

User Profile: IvoGeorg
IvoGeorg October 25th, 2020

llo everybody,

I hope you are having a day full of value-based action. I have spent some time reading through the "Panic Attacks" forum. Firstly, thank you all for sharing your stories and contributing with useful tips and tricks. In the end, what works, and it works for you, then there isn't "right or wrong" (except for alcohol or drug abuse, or any form of harmful action).

I am a major in psychology and am currently on my way to becoming a licensed therapist. I intend to specialise in the field of anxiety disorders, amongst others. That is why I am creating this threat, in order to share with you my knowledge about panic attacks, as well as my personal experience, since I am was a panic disordered person myself. I would really appreciate it, if you could leave your opinion about the strategy I am going to share and/or contribute yourself in any way.

Most of what I am going to write about is based on the approach from Dr. Harry Barry, which can be found on Youtube or in his book "Flagging anxiety and panic".

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I will be concentrating on two topics - the biology behind panic attacks and the behaviour part

Briefly said, what happens during a panic attack is your brain putting your body in a fight-flight- or freeze modus without any direct, logical danger (like seeing a bear, ready to snack with you). This leads to an amplification of the symptoms of this modus (heart pounding, knot in stomach, sweating or shaking, thoughts racing, feeling of impending doom, feeling of losing control etc), because the person can't apprehend why this is happening, because the perceived danger is mostly an inner thought or sensation on the subconscious level, not clear to see from the person experiencing this.

What happens in the brain and the body:

During a panic attack there are 3 main parts of your brain, which are involved - the Amygdala, the Prefrontal Cortex and the Hypothalamus

The Amygdala: the most ancient, most important and most stupid organ

- activates by perceived danger;

- sends signals to your whole body and especially to your hormone-control box

- prepares you to fight, flight or freeze

- is extremely quick and stubborn. Always on the lookout for danger and always ready to fire.

Think of it like a gunslinger. It is directly connected to your senses and ready to start the chain reaction of activating your body's stress responses. It activates your hormonal system, which itself produces adrenaline - the main cause of the panic attack-related symptoms.

The Prefrontal Cortex: the worrier and the catastrophiser

- it perceives situations and evaluates them as good or bad. Good in the sense of safe and bad in the sense of "potential danger"

- responsible for conditioning

- "communicates" with the Amygdala directly and tells it, if something is potentially dangerous or not

This organ resides in the logical part of your brain and does some high cognitive functions.

The Hypothalamus: the hormone-control box

- regulates the production of hormones

- "communicates" with the adrenal gland and it sends little adrenaline hormones into your blood stream

- fuel for all of the panicky symptoms

Now, enough geeky information. How do these 3 play together to make you experience a panic attack?

You perceive something (anything) which your Prefrontal cortex sees as dangerous. It sends to your Amygdala the sign "DANGER!". The Amygdala fires and puts you in the fight-flight- or freeze modus. It contacts your Hypothalamus, which through the adrenal glands, produces the hormone adrenaline.

Alright, you might say, but why do people get panic attacks, when they are at home or at a safe place, where there are no possible dangers to be perceived?

Well, basically any possible thing can be seen from your brain as a danger. This doesn’t only include typical triggers like a wild animal, a scary social situation, phobias etc. A thought, an emotion or a sensation could also be seen as a danger. And this is where the trick begins. Your brain needs nothing more than a single sensation to believe it could be harmful to you and to engage on the stress response. This is the harsh truth of our nature. Because we survived for so long as species in such dangerous surroundings, our brain has become a highly functioning danger alarm, which fires too often, rather than not often enough. It is the amusing truth, that your very own thoughts or emotions can be evaluated as a threat to you by your own brain. And the trickiest part is that even subconscious processes can lead to a panic attack. This means that something you are not actively aware that you are thinking or feeling can be labelled as dangerous from your brain. A proof of this are the nocturnal panic attacks, where people reported to having woken up from a deep sleep, only to experience a panic attack in the middle of the night. This is the amount of alertness your amygdala has for possible dangers.

Here beings the devil’s circle of amplification. You get these crazy, scary sensations, you don’t know why you are getting them one of a sudden, this scares you even more. You perceive what is happening to you as a threat itself. This leads your brain to believe that what happens is indeed dangerous for you. The stress response of your body gets stronger and longer.

Thanks for the info, smarta**, but what to do about it?

Before we talk about what to do, let me share some facts about panic attacks:

No one ever, in the history of human kind, has died of a panic attack!

Panic attacks could be very uncomfortable, but are not dangerous!

Panic attacks are in no way harmful to you or to you body! What could harm you is the destructive behaviours you initiate, when fighting against an attack (smoking, going outside in the cold, drinking, self harm…)

It is impossible to “lose your mind”, “lose control” or “go insane” from a panic attack. These are normal sensations you experience in this state. Very, very unpleasant, but also very normal.

Now you wonder what to actually do during a panic attack?

Nothing. Remain where you are and for 10 to 15 minutes (a typical duration of a panic attack) and do absolutely nothing. Don’t go anywhere. Don’t try any techniques, don’t call friends, don’t listen to music and please don’t breathe into a paper box. Sounds extremely counterintuitive, right? Let me share why it actually helps:

As you might have found out, panic attacks are a sign your brain sees something as potentially harmful and it gets your body ready to respond. Whether you are actively aware that your brain does this or not, is not important. Sometimes you know what the reason for a panic attack is, sometimes you don’t. The point is- your brain thinks you are in danger. The last thing you want to tell you brain, is that this is true. However, by reacting to your panic attack (trying to stop it, make it go away, make it shorter, make it not appear here or there, control it, make it less uncomfortable) you are telling your brain that indeed something dangerous is happening and you start fighting against it.

Every single possible thing you can do against a panic attack is perceived from your brain as a fight-or-flight response. This then in a way confirms to your brain, that there is a real danger, where in fact, there is none. By doing nothing, you are showing your anxious brain that is mistaken. You show your amygdala that it fired for no reason. By contra intuitively doing nothing, you let your brain realise there is nothing to fight against, or worry about, or run from. The symptoms then subside within 10-15 minutes.

Panic attacks are a normal mistake of your brain, trying to protect you from something, which is not harmful to you. If you start fighting them or in any way trying to control them, you confirm your brains irrational belief that you are endangered and that it has to do something about what you experience. This only makes the attacks stronger, more uncomfortable and can make them last for hours.

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I know this sounds bullocks at first, but for me and many other people I personally know and has read or heard about, it helps. Not only that, but there is a decent scientific research, proving that mindfulness and acceptance are very helpful for any kind of anxiety related phenomena (“Get Out Of Your Mind & Into Your Life, by Steven C. Hayes, “The Reality Slap”, by Dr. Russ Harris, “Flagging Anxiety and Panic”, by Dr. Harry Barry.)

Panic attacks are a big passion of mine as someone, who has experienced the seeming horror they can bring upon you. I can write many more pages about this topic, but more importantly, I want to hear what you people think about it. Do you find something particularly interesting? Do you disagree with any parts? Has this helped you in any way? Please, let me know. Also a good review or a recommendation is always appreciated, it helps me reach out to more people.

Stay healthy and take care!

Best wishes,

Ivo

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User Profile: butterfly054
butterfly054 October 25th, 2020

@IvoGeorg

Hi. I find this information very interesting. I suffered from panic attacks daily for over a month. I think it was triggered by my mom having dementia and my husband having to go away for 4 months during a pandemic where I'm afraid to leave the house except for essentials. My panic attacks were very much unconscious. I would wake up usually around 3-4 am in the middle of an attack. I'd tried many things to stop the attacks when they would occur. Usually walking around would help me. But, I did try just staying in bed and breathing through it. It never seemed to work for me. It just seemed to worsen. My heart would pound a million miles a minute and I felt like I couldn't breathe. My chest would hurt and I would have digestive problems to the max. They only stopped once I started taking Klonopin. I hate taking pills, but I tried everything else. If I have more attacks, I will try to do nothing and see what happens. My anxiety is still a huge problem, but the attacks have stopped for now.

Thanks for this post.

Karen

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User Profile: IvoGeorg
IvoGeorg OP October 25th, 2020

@butterfly054

I am glad to hear that the attacks have lessened now. I understand that you felt the need to take some medication. The symptoms of a panic attack can be very overwhelming. By all means, please, do whatever you find helps you specifically the most. If a next attack comes and you do try to use this strategy, you can try to think of it as "doing nothing in an accepting attitude", rather than "doing nothing in struggle and waiting for symptoms to go away". Maybe this could be a more self compasionate and effective way to face the fear.
Stay healthy and safe.

Cheers, Ivo

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User Profile: Owenlee
Owenlee April 8th, 2022

Hello, iv been having mild. Panic attacks for years but this week its been constantly. I hardly sleep I hardly eat I just feel like I'm either not breathing or I'm making myself breathe and idk what else to do I'm. Honestly scared

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User Profile: IvoGeorg
IvoGeorg OP July 12th, 2022

@Owenlee

Dear Owenlee,
I strongly recommend you to see a psychotherapist or a councelor, if you are not doing it. If you want to start tackling this right away, I also recommend the book "Get our of your mind & into your life" from professor Steven Hayes or "The reality slap".

Take care
Ivo

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User Profile: julyashka
julyashka June 20th, 2022

Thank you for sharing. I used to have panic attacks 4 or 5 years ago and this technique of understanding that no one has ever died from a panic attack and that I don’t need to call an ambulance really helps to cope with symptoms!

But what also helps is understanding the cause - what triggers this fight or flight response? And that can be hard because for me it was subconscious.

For me, I think I felt trapped - I didn’t see my relationship turning into marriage but it was also hard to leave. I didn’t like my job at the time. And all of that plus the fear of death and a feeling that I was not living my life to the fullest is what caused my panic attacks. Understanding that really helped me. I hope this will be helpful for someone else who is struggling with this too.

User Profile: SaireJameDavid
SaireJameDavid December 1st, 2022

@IvoGeorg Source: https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/101996408?q=panic+attacs&p=doc



Coping With Panic Attacks



Robert was sitting comfortably in his office. Suddenly, his heart began to pound. He bolted upright as his forehead broke out in sweat. Robert was sure that he was having a heart attack! He grabbed the phone. “Something awful is happening to me,” he gasped. “I feel as if I’m going to black out!”



THIS was Robert’s first experience with a panic attack. Sadly, it was not his last. The same feeling later overtook him at a restaurant and at a shopping mall. The panic even returned while he was visiting friends. Before long, the only “safe” place for Robert was home. Gradually, he became depressed. “I had even contemplated suicide,” he admits.



Six months later Robert came upon a newspaper article about panic attacks and agoraphobia. What he learned saved his life.



Why Panic?



Panic is the body’s normal response to danger. Imagine yourself walking across a highway. You suddenly notice a car speeding directly toward you. Instant physical and chemical changes in your body enable you to sprint to safety.



But now imagine this same feeling of panic with no apparent cause. Dr. R. Reid Wilson says: “Panic attacks are produced when panic deceives the brain into thinking there is imminent danger. Here you are, standing in the aisle of the grocery store, not bothering a soul. Flip. On goes the Emergency switch. ‘Red alert! All systems prepare for battle!’”



Only those who have experienced such attacks can fully grasp their intensity. American Health magazine describes it as “an adrenaline rush that screams through your body for five minutes or an hour or a day and then departs as quickly and mysteriously as it came, leaving you limp, exhausted and dreading the next one.”



The Roots of Panic



Panic attacks usually begin in young adulthood and affect more women than men. What causes them? There is no clear answer. Some say that sufferers are biologically predisposed because of an abnormality in the brain’s limbic system. Many feel that this condition can be inherited, while others claim that the brain’s chemistry is altered by stress-inducing factors.



In some cases the attacks are induced by memories of traumatic experiences, such as war, rape, or child abuse. One survey revealed the percentage of incest survivors with panic disorder to be 13 times higher than that of the general population. Indeed, while panic attacks and other syndromes are full-fledged problems in themselves, they can also be what writer E. Sue Blume calls “spokes with incest at the hub.”



Of course, not all panic attacks are induced by trauma. But Dr. Wayne Kritsberg cautions that when such is the case, “treating the secondary consequences of the abuse—rather than healing the original trauma—will not solve the problem permanently. It would be like taking cough syrup to cure a case of pneumonia.”



Can It Be Cured?



Panic attacks can be brought under control. Many whose fear of panic keeps them housebound have been helped by exposure therapy. In this treatment a patient is exposed to the situation he fears and is helped to stay there until panic diminishes. Those with heart trouble, asthma, peptic ulcer, colitis, or similar illnesses should consult a doctor before attempting this treatment.



Relaxation techniques can be employed to alleviate the buildup of anxiety.a Some of these are discussed in the accompanying box “Calming Skills.” But do not wait for the onset of panic. These skills are best practiced during low-anxiety periods. When mastered, they can diminish or even prevent future attacks.



Panic thrives on perfectionism and low self-esteem. “While I was having anxiety attacks, Mr. Negative ruled my life,” says one sufferer. “I told myself that because I had anxiety, I was inferior to others and therefore unlovable.” Reversing such attitudes can reduce anxieties that lead to panic.b



There is great value in confiding anxieties to a trusted friend. Talking them out can help the sufferer to distinguish problems that must be endured from problems that can be solved. Not to be overlooked is prayer. Psalm 55:22 says: “Throw your burden upon Jehovah himself, and he himself will sustain you. Never will he allow the righteous one to totter.”



Rather than a single, mountainous problem, it is often the accumulation of small, seemingly insignificant distresses that induces panic—much like the way running too many individual electrical appliances on the same circuit can blow a fuse. One solution is to write down each problem on an index card and arrange them from the simplest problem to the most difficult. Tackle them one at a time. Writing out your distresses changes their makeup from what you fear and avoid to what you can see and resolve.



Some are aided by taking prescribed tranquilizers or antidepressants. However, a caution is in order. “I do not feel that medication alone is the answer,” says counselor Melvin Green. “It should be used as an adjunct while seeking the answer. . . . Drugs may allow you to be more functional, and that can give you the opportunity to seek other help to deal with the causes of agoraphobia and work toward your recovery.”



A Spiritual Problem?



“I thought Christians weren’t supposed to experience anxiety attacks,” says Brenda, “because Jesus said ‘never be anxious.’ I concluded that I must not be relying on God enough.” Yet, the context of Jesus’ words at Matthew 6:34 shows that he was not discussing panic disorders. Rather, he was emphasizing the danger of being more concerned with material needs than spiritual ones.



Indeed, even those who put spiritual interests first may be afflicted with this disorder, as the following experience of a woman from Finland shows.



“My partner and I, both Jehovah’s Witnesses, were engaged in door-to-door preaching. Suddenly, I felt dizzy. My thoughts were blocked. Nothing seemed real, and I feared I would lose my balance. At the next door, I completely lost my grip on the conversation.



“This terrifying experience took place in 1970. It was the first in a series of strange spells that would plague me over the next two decades. Repeatedly, I would find myself in a misty world, unable to think clearly. I would feel dizzy, and my heart would pound. I would stumble over my words or lose them altogether.



“I was a young, energetic, and happy full-time minister of Jehovah’s Witnesses. How I loved helping others to understand the Bible! But these attacks were a constant torment to me. I wondered, ‘What is wrong with me?’ A neurologist diagnosed my condition as temporal epilepsy. For the next ten years, I took the medication he prescribed. Still, I wondered why it had such little effect. I came to accept my condition as something I would simply have to endure.



“After some time I came to realize that my illness wasn’t epilepsy, and my prescription wasn’t working. Even routine walks were an insurmountable task. I dreaded encountering anyone along my route. It took all my strength to attend Christian meetings. I often sat sweating and dizzy with my hand on my temples, my heart pounding, and my mind blank. Sometimes my whole body felt tense and cramped. At one point I was sure that I would die.



“My ministry helped to sustain me, although it was no small miracle that I could continue it at all. Conducting a Bible study was at times so overwhelming that my companion had to take over. Truly, our preaching is a team effort, and in the end it is God who keeps making it grow. (1 Corinthians 3:6, 7) Sheeplike ones hear and respond despite the limitations of the teacher.



“One day in March 1991, my husband showed me a booklet about panic disorder. The symptoms described were just like mine! I read more on the subject, attended lectures, and made an appointment to see a specialist. After two decades, my problem was finally identified. I was on the road to recovery!



“The majority of those with panic disorder can be helped with the right treatment. Friends can be a great support when they are sympathetic. Rather than heap guilt on an already troubled soul, a discerning companion will realize that the person with panic disorder is not purposely antisocial.—Compare 1 Thessalonians 5:14.



“As I review the past 20 years, I am grateful that through it all I have been able to remain in the full-time ministry. It has been a blessing well worth the struggle. At the same time, I realize that, like Epaphroditus, some must relinquish privileges of service because of poor health. Jehovah is not disappointed with such ones. He does not expect more than a person can reasonably give.



“Living with this disorder has taught me not to take myself too seriously. It has enabled me to sympathize with others who have limitations. But above all, it has helped me to get close to Jehovah. Throughout my ordeal I have repeatedly seen him to be a genuine source of strength and comfort.”



[Footnotes]



a Christians avoid techniques that involve hypnosis or self-hypnosis. However, there are some visual and meditative exercises that clearly do not involve emptying the mind or surrendering it to the control of another person. Whether to accept these treatments is a matter of personal decision.—Galatians 6:5.



b For information on reversing negative thoughts, see Awake!, October 8, 1992, pages 3-9, and October 22, 1987, pages 7-16.



[Box on page 22]



Calming Skills



Calm breathing. Panic attacks are frequently accompanied by hyperventilation. To relax your breathing, try this exercise: Lie on your stomach. Count to six as you inhale; count to six as you exhale. Next, try the same deep breathing while sitting down. Then, try it standing up. Breathe deeply from the diaphragm, and practice this daily until it becomes natural. Some benefit by imagining beautiful surroundings while doing this exercise.



Calm thinking. ‘What if I collapse?’ ‘What if no one is there to help me?’ ‘What if my heart gives out?’ Catastrophic thoughts fuel panic. Since these thoughts are usually of future disasters or past attacks, try concentrating on the present situation. “To focus on the immediate is instantly calming,” says Dr. Alan Goldstein. Some suggest that you wear a rubber band around your wrist. When catastrophic thoughts arise, snap it and tell yourself: “Stop!” Interrupt anxiety before it has a chance to escalate into panic.



Calm reacting. If panic befalls you, don’t fight it. It’s just a feeling, and feelings need not harm you. Imagine that you are at the ocean watching the waves. They rise, they peak, and then they dissipate. Panic flows in the same fashion. Instead of fighting the wave, ride it out. It will pass. When it is over, do not overreact or overanalyze. It is gone, like a sneezing spell or a headache.



Panic is like a bully. Provoke him, and he will attack; do not provoke him, and he may go away. Dr. R. Reid Wilson explains that calming skills “are not designed so that you can better ‘fight’ panic or ‘banish’ panic at that moment. Instead, consider them ways of passing the time while panic tries to pick a fight with you.”



[Box on page 23]



Agoraphobia, a Fear of Fear



Many who suffer panic attacks develop agoraphobia. While it has been defined as a fear of public places, agoraphobia can more accurately be called a fear of fear. Agoraphobics fear panic so much that they avoid all places where previous attacks occurred. Soon, only one “safe” place remains—usually home.



“Imagine that you are leaving your house,” says writer Melvin Green. “Suddenly, from out of nowhere, appears the biggest man you ever saw. He has a baseball bat and, for no reason, hits you on the head. You stagger back into the house, not believing what just happened. When you are feeling better, you peek out the door and everything seems normal. You start down the path again. Suddenly he is there, and again you are struck. You get back into the house where you are safe. You look out the back door . . . He is there. You look out the windows . . . He is there. You know that if you leave the safety of your home, you will be hit again. Question: Would you leave?”



Many agoraphobics liken their feelings to that illustration and feel that their condition is hopeless. But Dr. Alan Goldstein gives this reassurance: “You are not unique, you are not alone. . . . You can help yourselves.”