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How to Create a Comfort Box for Anxiety Relief

Jem7Cups April 6th

Hi everyone!

Anxiety can be overwhelming, making it hard to find solace, especially during intense moments. One tool that I’ve found particularly helpful is a "Comfort Box." It’s a simple, yet powerful way to provide solace during those tough times. Here’s a step-by-step guide to creating your own.


1. Choose Your Box

Find a box that resonates with you. It can be any size, shape, or colour. The important thing is that it should feel special to you, perhaps even decorate it to make it feel more personal.


2. Sensory Items for Soothing

Incorporate items that soothe each of your senses. This could include:

- Touch: A soft blanket or a stress ball.

- Sight: Photos of happy memories or a small book of inspiring images.

- Sound: A small music player, earphones, or a list of links to calming playlists.

- Smell: Essential oils, scented candles, or your favourite perfume.

- Taste: A selection of comforting teas or small candies.


3. Personal Affirmations and Notes

Write down positive affirmations, motivational quotes, or personal letters to yourself. Reading these during challenging times can offer a significant emotional lift.


4. A Distraction or Two

Sometimes, the best way to manage anxiety is to momentarily distract yourself. This could be a puzzle, a colouring book, a novel, or anything else that can help shift your focus.


5. Journal and Pen

Keeping a journal within your comfort box can be a therapeutic way to express your thoughts and feelings. Writing can be incredibly cathartic, helping to manage anxiety.


6. Comforting Activities List

Create a list of activities that make you feel happy and relaxed. This could be anything from a walk in the park, a warm bath, or watching your favourite movie.


7. Emergency Contacts

Include a list of emergency contacts. These could be friends, family members, or a therapist you can reach out to when you need support.


Remember: The comfort box is deeply personal and should reflect what brings you peace and comfort. There’s no right or wrong way to create it. Feel free to modify and adjust the contents as your needs and preferences change over time.


Creating a comfort box is a beautiful act of self-care. It’s a reminder that you deserve peace and comfort, especially in moments of anxiety. Feel free to share what would go into your comfort box or any thoughts on this approach to managing anxiety.


Stay strong and take care,

Jem7Cups

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bobCatz April 6th

Thanks for sharing. I have a pencil bag with small sensory items to reground me.

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Jem7Cups OP April 6th

@bobCatz how does that work for you? I love comfort boxes 🙂

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bobCatz April 18th

@Jem7Cups


When I focus on an item in my pencil bag I am able to experience at least on sense. Like I have two amethyst rocks, one smooth and polish, the other in the rough. I hold them, feel the coolness, experience the opposites in texture. Just gives me a few moments of joy.