Son’s addiction
My son is thankfully facing his addictions but he is only 20. He’s in rehab right now and we are working on what comes next. How do I help him and deal with my failure as a mother? I feel lost and failed him in so many ways.
Hey I would like to say you have not failed him as a mother, and the best you can do it provide a healthy environment when he gets out
Thanks. That is what I’m working towards. Small steps but it is something.
I was going through posts and I can apon your thread. I feel that you need to understand you in no way failed and the fact that you are concerned and want to be there to help him with the struggle shows that you in fact are a great parent and as far as after he is out of his program. The best thing is for him to keep working his plan and staying clear of people and places that will trigger him. I will tell you at some point he willost likely slip but don't take is as a fail it is a stumble addiction doesn't just stop it is something that needs attention and support. It will never go away but with time and education your son canade it out and have a very good, happy and productive life! I wish you and your son all the best @turquoiseAcai4979
Hello, You are not a failure as a parent. No matter how you raise someone, they tend to choose their own path. You are there for him little than you know it. The process of being there for each other and understanding helps a lot. Communication is the key! Good luck