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How to Help a Loved One Struggling with Addiction

fruityPond7887 March 10th, 2023

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"Addiction affects the individual struggling with addiction and those around them, including family and friends. Watching a loved one struggle with addiction can be a difficult and heart-wrenching experience. It can be hard to know what to do or say to help a loved person struggling with addiction, but understanding the condition and being supportive can make a difference. We spoke to the director of a center that treats drug and alcohol addiction in Phoenix, Arizona, to give us their insight. This is what we learned.

Understanding the condition is the first step in helping a loved one struggling with addiction. Addiction is a chronic and relapsing disease characterized by the compulsive use of a substance or behavior despite the negative consequences it causes. It’s important to understand that addiction is not a choice nor a sign of weakness or lack of willpower.

Another critical step in helping a loved one struggling with addiction is to be supportive. This means being there for your loved one, listening to them, and understanding their struggles. Avoiding judgment or criticism is important, as this can only worsen the situation.

Being supportive also means being patient. Recovery is a process that takes time, and it’s sometimes a challenging path. There may be setbacks and relapses, and it’s essential to understand that these are a normal part of the recovery process.

Another critical step in helping a loved one struggling with addiction is encouraging them to seek professional help. Encourage them to look for a treatment center that aligns with their beliefs and values and offers various treatment options. This may include treatment at a rehab facility, therapy, or participation in a support group. Relapse is common, and it’s essential to understand that it’s not a failure but an opportunity to learn and grow. It’s also important to remember that recovery is a lifelong process and requires ongoing effort and commitment.

Another important aspect of helping a loved one struggling with addiction is to address any co-occurring mental health conditions. Many individuals with addiction also struggle with mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD. These conditions can contribute to the development of addiction and can also make it more difficult for individuals to maintain recovery. Encourage your loved one to seek help for any co-occurring mental health conditions and to work with a therapist or counselor specializing in treating addiction and mental health conditions.

Every person has a different experience with addiction, and the recovery process will look different for each person. It’s important to be patient and understanding, and to support your loved one through their journey, even if it takes longer than expected. Addiction to certain substances can lead to an overdose, and it’s important to be aware of the signs and symptoms of an overdose and to know what to do in case of an overdose. This may include learning how to administer naloxone, a medication that can reverse the effects of an opioid overdose, and knowing the location of the nearest emergency department. Encourage your loved one to seek help from a lawyer or legal advocate if they face legal issues related to their addiction.

Finally, it’s important to remember that recovery is a lifelong process requiring ongoing effort and commitment. Supporting a loved one through addiction recovery is not a one-time event but an ongoing process. It’s essential to continue supporting and encouraging your loved one to continue their recovery journey, even after their initial success.

In conclusion, helping a loved one struggling with addiction is challenging but important. It requires education, expressing concern and love, encouraging professional help, being supportive, setting boundaries, and caring for yourself. "


*Addiction doesn't only affect the individual, but their loved ones too. It's so hard to see our loved ones struggling and sometimes, we can't help them as much as we'd like to. It's important to try our best to support them, listen when they need us, and encourage them to seek help through a rehab center or psychiatrist. At the same time, it's important to take care of yourself too. There are challenges to handling a loved one's addiction and your feelings are just as valid! Seek support if you need it and practice self-care as well. You don't have to handle it all on your own. What are some ways you support your loved ones if they are struggling with addiction?*


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Please find the full article at Thrive Global.


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toughTiger6481 March 13th, 2023

@fruityPond7887

Imo it is very hard to support a loved one as they use that connection far too often to excuse their continued use or abuse of items.

I feel sometimes they need a good strong dose of reality to face their issues and most loved ones are not able to not fall into the enabling pattern........ it is long term and frankly is tiring and exhausting for the person trying everything to support that person as it is seldom given in return.....


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fruityPond7887 OP March 13th, 2023

@toughTiger6481 I totally understand where you are coming from. Supporting someone in recovery from addiction can be exhausting, especially if the pattern keeps repeating. It is okay if someone who supports them needs boundaries or needs to take a step back. We have to take care of ourselves too.

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