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NEW - Addiction Support Automated Taglist
by tommy
Last post
 October 4th
...See more Welcome to the NEW Addiction Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 1st July (updated by @tommy)
Porn Addiction
by cinenao
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Porn addiction is a serious and widespread issue that affects both men and women. I understand how difficult it can be to break free from this cycle and how it can lead to feelings of shame, isolation, or a distorted view of yourself and others. If you’re struggling with this addiction, know that you are not alone, and there is hope for change. I’m here to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk openly about your challenges and work toward breaking free from this pattern. Recovery is not easy, but with the right support, it is absolutely possible. If you’re ready to take the first step toward healing and reclaiming your life, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to listen and walk alongside you in this journey.
I want / need this to end
by Gamespy56
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more My gambling started 3 years ago or so, my friends went to a casino one night, and the next time i went with them, i started out Playing roulette, it was fun, I've never gambled or was much of a betting man before that.... Until i discovered slots. Since the first time i won big on a slot machine I've been hooked, i have tried stopping more times than i can count, i don't believe myself at all anymore when i tell myself that "this was the last time" i know it's not, i know I'm lying to myself. I know i have a huge problem, since i started gambling I've been broke, every paycheck i would get i would lose in a day, and then lie and borrow money from friends and family, every time i think I've hit rock bottom i surprise myself and fall even lower. I did manage to stop for a year or so, i moved away, and didn't really have money to gamble with anyway, but i didn't even think about it during that time, as soon as I moved back though, the first thing I did was go to a casino and it started all over again, i am exhausted, i am so tired, i want to stop so bad but at the same time i guess i don't, it's a love hate relationship. More hate... The feeling i get when gambling and i win something, or even get free spins on the slots with a decent bet size.... It's better then anything I've ever experienced, better then sex. Nothing really comes close to it. This post doesn't really have a point i just needed to vent i guess. This has been a really bad day
There's too much happening
by Elylouise
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more I'm really struggling to stay sober at the moment. I haven't drank in months but it's getting really hard to keep going. I kinda need some encouraging words to get me through this
Alcohol
by KinaxSweetheart
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more I have been struggling with alcohol forever, I'm currently in AA but it doesn't seem to be helping. What do I do?
Trying to stop using meth
by Djfacepalm
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more I've already been through detox. Probably have to again before I can go to treatment. Really struggling fighting the urge to just say f it. Any tips..?
Smoking
by Beechie
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Can someone help me to quit smoking? I really can't take it anymore. 
Keep Saying l won't do again am starting a fresh page but there is me now on the site browsing at porn
by amicableCranberry3455
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more I need help and l would appreciate someone who has been addicted before to carry this struggle with .It's beens 6 years and am 19 and starting to be annoyed for nothing and forgetful .I need help
Could someone be my accountability partner
by quietSquare405
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more I really need someone to help me with my addiction to porn please message me if your willing to help
Family
by dynamicPal1370
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hello. I have certain family members who pressurise me to drink alcohol at times. When i say no they make out that i am miserable. Yet if i dare to have a sip of alcohol when they do not want a drink they make out that i am an alcoholic.
Im tired of bottling everything in.
by vidia00
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hi im 16 year old girl and i have an addiction to weed and ***. Lately it's been so bad i tried to quit weed this weekend (i’ve been a weed addict for about a year) but ended up drinking for two days straight instead and i *** everyday/often ever since the age of 12 even if i don't feel ***. I don't know how to cope with my emotions and i'll do pretty much anything to not think about how messed up stuff feels. I know i should get help but my parents aren't supportive about mental health, they don't think it's an actual thing. On a positive note, im 3 weeks clean from nicotine so atleast that's something to be proud of. I was a bit hesitant about opening up at first because i’ve had issues in the past with non accepting people but i’m tired of feeling alone and so misunderstood. I’ve been dealing with this alone for too long and i hate that i feel like no one genuinley cares anymore.
SELF HARM addiction
by life4all
Last post
 Monday
...See more I need to stop. If anyone could help. and no i cant get professional help.
It ruined everything
by AliShair
Last post
 Sunday
...See more My story: I was 8 when I was exposed to porn. I was too young and my mind was not fully develop to process all that stuff. As I grow it went away from my life for a year or two but when I turned 12 it came back. I remember the rush that I was getting from it, in other words it was really messing with my brains reward system. Years went by and in 10th grade I realized that there is something wrong with me or in my life. It was the point when I recognized my problem and it was my addiction to pornography. Things would be so much better if I chose not to watch it in the first place. But what could I do as a small kid at that time. I wish someone warned me about the dangers of pornography. I ask why I was not stumble upon anything referring to the harms of it. It was a rosebud for me which I think I opened too early in my life. 

Addiction Support

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Welcome to Addiction Support! We are so pleased that you have stumbled across our little corner of the internet. Our community is here to support you through any recovery and/or pathway from substances to gambling, internet, self-harm, porn addiction, sex addiction, and more. All are welcome to participate whether you are a family member watching a loved one struggling or if you are struggling yourself. Feel free to discuss anything and everything related to addictions.


What are the different forum topics for Addiction Support?

Community Space: A place for you to introduce yourself and take part in our community check-ins.

Games and Icebreakers: A place for you to get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

General Addiction Support: Do you have a question or want to share more about your addiction? Do it here!

Journals: Want to share your story or involve us on your journey to recovery? Do it here!

Loving Those With Addictions: Got a loved one with an addiction? Share your story here!

Sex and Porn Addiction Support: Struggling with a sex and/or porn addiction? Discuss it here!


How can I help?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information.


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


Addiction Support FAQ

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to?

All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help... I still have a question! 

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