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you can be a kind person & still:

chyni January 16th
  • say no.
  • prioritize your needs.
  • disagree with people. 
  • be honest. 
  • challenge poor behavior.
  • walk away from toxic environments.
  • make mistakes.
  • stand up for yourself. 
  • protect your time and peace. 

credits to h.el.e.n.m.a.r.i.e 

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YourCaringConfidant January 16th

@chyni Yes to this! 100%. 👌👌

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chyni OP January 16th

@YourCaringConfidant

absolutely ❤

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maleehaisnum1 January 16th

@chyni yes girll

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chyni OP January 17th

@maleehaisnum1

that's right 🙌🏾🩷

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BlissfulBue January 24th

Yeah!

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chyni OP February 29th

@BlissfulBue

absolutely 🫶🏽💕

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sunsetparadise16 January 24th

@chyni thank you so much for this post! I really needed this today

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chyni OP January 27th

@sunsetparadise16

you're welcome ☺️ 

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LZYYYy January 27th

@chyni

Thank you for reminding me about these tips! they're really helpful!

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chyni OP February 1st

@LZYYYy

 so glad they were helpful to you 🫶🏽

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CocoaCassie January 28th

@chyni

chyni January 16th
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  • say no.
  • prioritize your needs.
  • disagree with people. 
  • be honest. 
  • challenge poor behavior.
  • walk away from toxic environments.
  • make mistakes.
  • stand up for yourself. 
  • protect your time and peace.


Thanks, I feel we all need this little reminder. I find it hard to disagree or say no, but to challenge poor behavior or step in when someone is being nasty I tend to do that all the time. I still feel I am a kind person.

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chyni OP February 28th

@CocoaCassie

i believe you can still be a kind person and also set boundaries and say no as well ☺️

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Sadielps February 25th

@chyni

YES! Thank you so much for sharing this. 

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chyni OP February 28th

@Sadielps

you are so welcome 😊

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FeureVox March 3rd

@chyni @YourCaringConfidant @maleehaisnum1 @BlissfulBue @sunsetparadise16 @LZYYYy @CocoaCassie @Sadielps

Being kind doesn't mean compromising your well-being or ignoring your boundaries.

It's entirely possible—and necessary—to maintain kindness while asserting their own needs and boundaries.

Saying no, prioritizing your well-being, and standing up for yourself is self-respect and self-care, which are crucial for maintaining mental and emotional health.

It's important to remember that setting boundaries and protecting your peace doesn't make you any less kind; it simply means you're also practicing kindness towards yourself.

This balance is critical to nurturing healthy, respectful relationships with others and yourself.

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@FeureVox Thank you for this and the tag! It was definitely a needed read this morning! Xoxo. 

chyni OP March 3rd

@FeureVox

i agree, and you couldn’t have said it any better 😊 thank you for sharing 

@FeureVox such an important comment, thank you for tagging me <3

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@chyni Very true, and its important to remember that other people are the same and can disagree with you or prioritize themselves and not be doing it to harm you.

Grace is needed on both ends here.

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chyni OP March 3rd

@decisiveGrapefruit9147

true. thanks for sharing 😊

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